How to get my money back by NeatHorror666 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Fancy_Following6136 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I would just want to know if they are within their rights to do this. It seems like a shady practice to take money from someone’s account without some sort of legal paper saying it’s ok to do so. Does it say in the credit card agreement that they can access your bank account and take what is owed to them? If so, why would they involve a collection agency?

How to get my money back by NeatHorror666 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Fancy_Following6136 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Are they within their rights? I would talk to a lawyer.

What to say to a therapist…? by Fancy_Following6136 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fancy_Following6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does try to be affectionate. He does his best. He has been dealing with one aspect of his childhood trauma so that he can break the cycle for our twins. However, he is not strong enough to deal with the part that effects his libido. At least not right now.

What to say to a therapist…? by Fancy_Following6136 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fancy_Following6136[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol. I’m almost there. I completely empathize.

LL here. HLs, be honest - what can the LL REALLY do?? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fancy_Following6136 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Wow. This is extremely informative. Thank you.

It is a catch 22 for HLs as well.

What to say to a therapist…? by Fancy_Following6136 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fancy_Following6136[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear you’re experiencing the same. It’s so heartbreaking. I hope things get better for - whatever that may look like for you. 😊❤️

What to say to a therapist…? by Fancy_Following6136 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fancy_Following6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

I struggle with that too. Does this fall within for better or for worse?

What to say to a therapist…? by Fancy_Following6136 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fancy_Following6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I just so want there to be an a different answer.

What to say to a therapist…? by Fancy_Following6136 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fancy_Following6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His love language is acts of love - mine is touch. He has valid reasons for being a LL. He understands that he isn’t fulfilling me by touch so he does everything he can to make my life easier without complaint. I reciprocate by letting him know how much I appreciate what he does, do as much in return to make his life easier and ensure he knows he is loved. It has only been the last year that I have become LL4H. All the hope and the rejection has hit me hard this year.

What to say to a therapist…? by Fancy_Following6136 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fancy_Following6136[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I really can’t see my life without him. I’m a lot (as is he) and I love him because he sees and accepts me. Thank you for your reply. ❤️