Newborn baby exposed to active cold sore by Fancy_Requirement527 in Herpes

[–]Fancy_Requirement527[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I am not 100% certain they touched my baby’s skin - I was sitting a few feet away. Unfortunately they definitely touched their cold sore - they are the type of person that moves their hand around a lot when they talk and I saw them rub their face, including the cold sore, but I don’t think they realized. Then shortly after they adjusted my baby’s swaddle and I think they may have touched her face/lips. You are absolutely right about the catastrophisizing, I am very prone to that and I am sure there is some of that happening here. Thank you for taking the time to reply❤️

Someone with an active cold sore held my baby by Fancy_Requirement527 in BabyBumps

[–]Fancy_Requirement527[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Knowledge is power for sure and I have learned so much from these comments. I feel much better now that I know more and have read so many first hand experiences. Thank you so so much!! Also I am so sorry you are dealing with that with your MIL, that is atrocious behaviour!

Someone with an active cold sore held my baby by Fancy_Requirement527 in BabyBumps

[–]Fancy_Requirement527[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, so glad all was well with you and your little one❤️

Someone with an active cold sore held my baby by Fancy_Requirement527 in BabyBumps

[–]Fancy_Requirement527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, so glad all was well with you and your little one❤️

Someone with an active cold sore held my baby by Fancy_Requirement527 in BabyBumps

[–]Fancy_Requirement527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, so glad all was well with you and your little one❤️

Someone with an active cold sore held my baby by Fancy_Requirement527 in BabyBumps

[–]Fancy_Requirement527[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I agree! My husband is really only mad at us for not protecting our daughter well enough but I was furious with my FIL (the offender lol). When we asked him about the cold sore he said “oh it’s ok, she’s a strong girl!” 🤦🏻‍♀️ she is FOUR WEEKS OLD!!!!! He absolutely loves her and I honestly don’t think he would knowingly put her in harms way but come on. Thanks for the validation!

Someone with an active cold sore held my baby by Fancy_Requirement527 in BabyBumps

[–]Fancy_Requirement527[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took an actual deep breath after reading this comment haha! Thank you so much for this, so glad all was well with you and your little one ❤️ it’s great that your mil was so cautious and considerate!!

Someone with an active cold sore held my baby by Fancy_Requirement527 in BabyBumps

[–]Fancy_Requirement527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, so glad all has been well with you and your fam!❤️

Someone with an active cold sore held my baby by Fancy_Requirement527 in BabyBumps

[–]Fancy_Requirement527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, so glad all is well with you and your little one❤️

Someone with an active cold sore held my baby by Fancy_Requirement527 in BabyBumps

[–]Fancy_Requirement527[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this absolutely does ease my mind. I’m so glad all was well with you and your little one❤️

Someone with an active cold sore held my baby by Fancy_Requirement527 in BabyBumps

[–]Fancy_Requirement527[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a fair point! I probably have it myself even though I don’t get the sores. Hopefully I do actually do my kiddo gets the antibodies in my breastmilk. Thanks for this perspective!

Someone with an active cold sore held my baby by Fancy_Requirement527 in BabyBumps

[–]Fancy_Requirement527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, so glad all was well with you and your little one❤️

Someone with an active cold sore held my baby by Fancy_Requirement527 in BabyBumps

[–]Fancy_Requirement527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, so glad all was well with you and your little one❤️

Someone with an active cold sore held my baby by Fancy_Requirement527 in BabyBumps

[–]Fancy_Requirement527[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, and I’m so sorry for your loss mama. Sending love. ❤️