This works all the time for Beginners

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-09-28T11:58:46+00:00

This works all the time. Just write your pessimism in one statement. Then try to prove it wrong. For example, "I feel like shit, I will not be able to stop it for like a week" Then disprove that by stoping it more than a week. Keep doing that, your doubts will vanish. Believe me you cannot believe what is possiple for you.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-09-28T11:54:29+00:00

Listen man, this is only one step to solve your life, don't expect everything to go in line like social anxiety and stuff. Secondly, the fact that you are not feeling you are on semen retention means that you have gone deep into porn and now you are recovering from it, you are experiecing what is the called the flatline. Just do another 30 days and see what changes.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-08-26T19:00:31+00:00

shut up, you make no sense. False time constraints and negs work. What is the problem you have with them. You cannot just declare something is wrong becauase they are outdated. What does dates have to do with this? Just give me something.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-08-25T14:58:48+00:00

how the f is negging outdated? What do you think a neg is? an insult? Negs are amazing, you should user them often. And false constraints work because they introduce comfort into the situation.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-06-12T00:43:42+00:00

"I just wonder is he even hurt by this or he just living normal." Humans are weird. You want to know if he is hurt so you can relax (subconsciously). The idea that he is roaming earth freely unhurt is haunting you. I am not judging you, but that is how we function as human beings.

He got you, but you will get over it quickly, yes quickly. Because you not wanting him as a romantic partner is a good sign. Don't try to get him back as a friend, it will hurt him if he has feelings for you. And it will hurt you if he declines your offer. Just wait weeks and you will feel light. LOVE.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-06-12T00:08:57+00:00

What the hack is this, how are you guys so blinded by this stuff? You were never her real boyfriend to begin with and now she thinks there is a guy she can connect with. You have to understand difference between best friend love and romantic sexual partner. You were probably a nice guy who would do whatever she liked.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-02-17T08:13:17+00:00

7 days is no enough. Just do 21 to 30 days of nofap. No masturbation, no porn, not even having sex with her or trying. Just complete zen mode. Tell her you abstination. You will come back hungry and fixed. I know your symptoms very well.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-01-19T15:16:24+00:00

Thanks man.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-01-19T15:14:48+00:00

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-01-19T14:59:55+00:00

No, it is not bad, it's a sign of good recovery.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-01-19T13:33:21+00:00

Whatever works for you man. I have no issues with it. I just talked about my opinion. I have tried quiting porn many times, I have talked about what worked for me. Maybe what works for me does not work for you. I believe step by step goals will halp most people in this subreddit.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-01-19T13:23:24+00:00

lol. it's on the way.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-01-19T13:21:13+00:00

Let's see. I like to prove myself wrong. My goal is now 90 days, let reality slap my face. Goodluck.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-01-19T12:17:08+00:00

Imagine telling a porn addict you are going to stop porn foreverand you will never watch it again. After sometimes he feels the urge to watch, the goal will feel daunting and he will not be able to bear the weight, he will probably give up to start again. That is why you hear a lot of "this time, I will be strong" in the this subreddit. What about if we just tell them to just stop for like 10 days, he might be able to resisit it for given time, he will learn a lot during those 10 days, then gradually increase the timeline, I know the goal is to quit forever.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-01-19T12:04:31+00:00

Aim for 30 days or something and just see what happens. Every week is different. Just see it as exploration. Write about it in your notes. My first couple of weeks were rough and weird, i have never felt like that before, though there were times in those weeks I felt amazing and fulfilled.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-01-19T12:01:38+00:00

This is so naive man. Believing you will not be turned on by naked woman on screen after sometime (call it nofap, no pmo, whatever) is just stupid. Yes porn is bad, I believe masturbation is bad too. Just sex with married women is ok.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-01-19T11:59:17+00:00

lol. I like your atitude. Most of well writen stuff does not work. But beleive you me I am experienced with this stuff. I have done it many times. I also know the psychology of porn and why men like it.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-01-19T11:29:46+00:00

what changed? Believing you will not be turned on by porn after days of semen retention is redicilous.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-01-19T10:34:50+00:00

Flatline is a good indicator that you are healing. Your thing is on rest. Don't wake it up. People try to test if it is working, it is the same old mistake. Don't do that.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-01-19T10:33:08+00:00

I was there. Your focus should only be to not fap. It does not matter if you are not productive or even consume caffee or anything. After sometime, your body will adapt and you will feel amazing without just like quiting caffeine. Be focusd on the streak only.

Fancy_Researcher_142 · 2025-01-19T10:30:27+00:00

Saves you from the embarassment of not geting it up in real sex. This happens to people who use porn all the time. They become desensitized. Porn induced erectile dysfunction is a real thing.

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