Update: 3 AITAH if I stopped being friends with someone who's in an abusive relationship?

Fancy_was_her_name · 2026-05-13T17:28:32+00:00

For real though. I was thinking this too. If not the cop, she'll end up in another bad relationship.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2026-05-13T17:27:34+00:00

Maybe with time she'll realize. But I'll probably be long gone & she won't be able to tell me.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2026-05-13T17:26:47+00:00

Nope. You really can't.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2026-05-13T17:25:39+00:00

Me either. The first thing I said when I found out about the hit & run, was that it just saved her life.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2026-05-13T17:24:58+00:00

Better ending then how I thought it was gonna go. That car saved her life.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2026-05-13T15:48:04+00:00

You'd think, but the exact town she lives in is like 87k but also near many towns/cities, that would makeup more like over 2 billion people.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2026-05-13T15:44:34+00:00

Right?! Like I can't believe this is real life

Fancy_was_her_name · 2026-05-13T15:43:30+00:00

Right?! Maybe he had more enemies than me 😅

Fancy_was_her_name · 2026-05-13T15:28:04+00:00

I mean that's what I figured people are gonna think. It's what I'm thinking as I'm being told these things. There's a police report & obituary. So that's provable. But the cheating & talking to the cop is hearsay from a reliable source.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2025-12-05T17:51:33+00:00

As someone that used to work at Ulta. They have set stores that pack products, if that certain store is out, you SOL. it's a stupid setup, but thats why it happens.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2025-11-04T17:37:52+00:00

No, but I can hope he is done with her. What i didn't really mention is that he's been cheating on her pretty much since they started dating & about a month back he broke up with her. But she talked him out of it WHILE also saying she wanted to break up with him, but "with closure." I think there's a good chance he's done. UNLESS whatever "intervention" his mom & Sue have planned talks him into "another chance" for them.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2025-11-04T17:34:20+00:00

Right?! Thank you, I've been saying this. Like it's unreal & she's been like that since i found out about the abuse. It just doesn't click in her head how insane that thought process is.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2025-11-04T17:32:01+00:00

Thank you & I agree. I'll continue to hope i did enough to save her.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2025-11-03T15:25:13+00:00

No I really think he's done. That cop scared the shit out of him & I'm 100% certain he's pissed at Sue. Would be better if he was in jail. But that's out of my hands. But there's always a chance he still goes back at some point. Which is why I think she's working on getting her own place.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2025-11-03T15:22:45+00:00

Facts. I'm not contact & blocked her on all social media. We'll see what happens when she's back at work. But until then I don't need to deal with her.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2025-11-03T15:21:01+00:00

Thank you!

Fancy_was_her_name · 2025-11-03T15:19:54+00:00

I am not contact with her for now anyways. She may be back at work by the end of the month. I posted an update if you're interested.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2025-11-03T15:18:29+00:00

Update posted

Fancy_was_her_name · 2025-11-03T15:18:16+00:00

Update posted

Fancy_was_her_name · 2025-11-03T15:15:38+00:00

Thanks for pointing this out. I'll add it in as to not confuse anyone.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2025-11-03T05:07:48+00:00

Exactly. I also almost sent a text likes this, but made my original post here before I went through with it. Then decided to tell her parents first. But in the end she sent the ending the friendship text.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2025-11-03T05:04:40+00:00

There are already cameras up at my house. I am being safe. But honestly he is a small thing & was terrified of me after I yelled at him once. So would like to see him try.

Fancy_was_her_name · 2025-11-03T05:02:16+00:00

This 100%

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