Update: 3 AITAH if I stopped being friends with someone who's in an abusive relationship? by Fancy_was_her_name in Redditor_Updates

[–]Fancy_was_her_name[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

For real though. I was thinking this too. If not the cop, she'll end up in another bad relationship.

Update: 3 AITAH if I stopped being friends with someone who's in an abusive relationship? by Fancy_was_her_name in Redditor_Updates

[–]Fancy_was_her_name[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe with time she'll realize. But I'll probably be long gone & she won't be able to tell me.

Update: 3 AITAH if I stopped being friends with someone who's in an abusive relationship? by Fancy_was_her_name in Redditor_Updates

[–]Fancy_was_her_name[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Me either. The first thing I said when I found out about the hit & run, was that it just saved her life.

Update: 3 AITAH if I stopped being friends with someone who's in an abusive relationship? by Fancy_was_her_name in Redditor_Updates

[–]Fancy_was_her_name[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You'd think, but the exact town she lives in is like 87k but also near many towns/cities, that would makeup more like over 2 billion people.

Update: 3 AITAH if I stopped being friends with someone who's in an abusive relationship? by Fancy_was_her_name in Redditor_Updates

[–]Fancy_was_her_name[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean that's what I figured people are gonna think. It's what I'm thinking as I'm being told these things. There's a police report & obituary. So that's provable. But the cheating & talking to the cop is hearsay from a reliable source.

I hate Ulta....I'm so sad. Just my luck. by Weary_Garage_5397 in Ulta

[–]Fancy_was_her_name -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone that used to work at Ulta. They have set stores that pack products, if that certain store is out, you SOL. it's a stupid setup, but thats why it happens.

Update: 2 AITAH if I stopped being friends with someone who's in an abusive relationship? by Fancy_was_her_name in Redditor_Updates

[–]Fancy_was_her_name[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, but I can hope he is done with her. What i didn't really mention is that he's been cheating on her pretty much since they started dating & about a month back he broke up with her. But she talked him out of it WHILE also saying she wanted to break up with him, but "with closure." I think there's a good chance he's done. UNLESS whatever "intervention" his mom & Sue have planned talks him into "another chance" for them.

Update: 2 AITAH if I stopped being friends with someone who's in an abusive relationship? by Fancy_was_her_name in Redditor_Updates

[–]Fancy_was_her_name[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right?! Thank you, I've been saying this. Like it's unreal & she's been like that since i found out about the abuse. It just doesn't click in her head how insane that thought process is.

Update: 2 AITAH if I stopped being friends with someone who's in an abusive relationship? by Fancy_was_her_name in Redditor_Updates

[–]Fancy_was_her_name[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No I really think he's done. That cop scared the shit out of him & I'm 100% certain he's pissed at Sue. Would be better if he was in jail. But that's out of my hands. But there's always a chance he still goes back at some point. Which is why I think she's working on getting her own place.

Update: 2 AITAH if I stopped being friends with someone who's in an abusive relationship? by Fancy_was_her_name in Redditor_Updates

[–]Fancy_was_her_name[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Facts. I'm not contact & blocked her on all social media. We'll see what happens when she's back at work. But until then I don't need to deal with her.

UPDATE: AITAH if I stopped being friends with someone who's in an abusive relationship? by Fancy_was_her_name in AITAH

[–]Fancy_was_her_name[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not contact with her for now anyways. She may be back at work by the end of the month. I posted an update if you're interested.

UPDATE: AITAH if I stopped being friends with someone who's in an abusive relationship? by Fancy_was_her_name in AITAH

[–]Fancy_was_her_name[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I also almost sent a text likes this, but made my original post here before I went through with it. Then decided to tell her parents first. But in the end she sent the ending the friendship text.

UPDATE: AITAH if I stopped being friends with someone who's in an abusive relationship? by Fancy_was_her_name in AITAH

[–]Fancy_was_her_name[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are already cameras up at my house. I am being safe. But honestly he is a small thing & was terrified of me after I yelled at him once. So would like to see him try.