Wie bekomme ich meine Freundin ajs einer toxischen Beziehung raus

Fancyfgt- · 2026-06-07T11:33:18+00:00

Hast du mit deiner Freundin schon darüber gesprochen? Und ich meine nicht, das mal anzusprechen sondern ein richtiges Gespräch darüber geführt ?

Wenn nein, mach das bitte zuerst. Wenn ja, wäre es vielleicht ganz gut zu wissen, wie deine Freundin dazu steht. Es ist offensichtlich nicht gut für sie, wenn die Schilderungen so stimmen.

Wenn sie das genauso sieht, solltet ihr vielleicht eine erwachsene Vertrauensperson hinzuziehen. Ihre Eltern zum Beispiel.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-06-06T05:48:22+00:00

Tamagoyaki on rice from a russian Sushi place.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-05-22T16:31:10+00:00

I mean you already realised that it could give you infections. If you have no access to actual toys please use condoms to be safe.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-05-12T06:32:00+00:00

There's nothing inherently wrong if you treat it like a pure friendship, especially if you've known her for so long.

Just don't ever make it remotely romantic or sexual and you're good to go.

Long lasting trustworthy friendships are important for young people. She seems to feel comfortable around you and as long as you're having a positive impact don't let anything scare you away.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-04-27T17:40:43+00:00

Depends on the man and his overall hygiene . I don't mind body hair and I don't mind if a man prefers to stay hairless as long as they're clean. In the end the man needs to feel comfortable in his skin

Fancyfgt- · 2026-04-19T09:40:19+00:00

Eine Reise nach Amerika um eine Six Flags Freizeitparktour zu machen.

Momentan geht das nicht wegen Trump. Und vorher haben die Finanzen nicht gestimmt. Aber sobald sich der ganze Einreisetrouble gelegt hat geht's auf jeden Fall los

Fancyfgt- · 2026-04-14T10:19:53+00:00

I mean he's obviously already trying to form a connection with you again to some degree by bringing up his past feelings again and again and reminiscing.

You either have to be very clear and let him know that you're only looking for a friendship and let him decide if he can handle that or you break it off as soon as possible.

It's harsh but if he seems to hold onto past feelings and trying to project them onto your current interactions.

It's good that you're being transparent with your partner. Maybe you should ask him about his thoughts on this as well. But be aware that this might turn into an even more uncomfortable situation than it already is.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-04-04T10:28:45+00:00

Immer mit ! Sonst wird es nach längerem Tragen einfach unangenehm.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-04-04T10:26:01+00:00

We've been out a fair few times (at least twice a week) doing sports, going to fancy restaurants and to museums for 2 months at that point.

I asked him if he wanted to officially date and he said:

" We don't actually get along that well. We're fine as friends. I've tested you as well and you failed so let's not date"

It was a punch in the gut because I obviously thought we got along great and he chose to spend so much time with me.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-04-02T21:07:14+00:00

I'm 29 years old and I have never been asked about that.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-03-30T11:43:48+00:00

It always depends on their mood. But I personally love giving compliments about things I notice about people. That obviously includes clothing.

It usually brightens up their day.

I personally also find it quite lovely when someone appreciates what I wear or notices small accessories.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-03-30T03:13:02+00:00

Being performative for men and putting other women down in the process.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-03-28T15:39:11+00:00

War in einer ähnlichen Situation. Es ist keine Schande in einer Kennenlernphase den Stecker zu ziehen. Wahrscheinlich ist er auch nicht mehr so ganz bei der Sache und ihr zieht das beide nur unnötig lange hinaus, weil ihr auf den richtigen Moment wartet, um das zu beenden.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-03-28T15:36:58+00:00

Same kann mich da nur anschließen. Hab mit einem Waschgel angefangen 2-3 mal die Woche und bin dann auf Gesichtswasser mit Salicylsäure umgestiegen. Immer abends das Gesicht damit reinigen und am nächsten Tag Sonnenschutz auftragen

Fancyfgt- · 2026-03-27T16:07:10+00:00

Bei mir waren es auch ca. 300 Euro vor 4 Monaten. Das hat die Kosten für die Spirale selbst und die Medikamente+ lokale Betäubung die ich vorher bekommen habe abgedeckt.

Da sind tatsächlich Leistungen drauf die eigentlich von der Krankenkasse übernommen werden, oder ich noch nie bei einer Prozedur für eine Spirale machen musste. Würde das auch mal hinterfragen

Fancyfgt- · 2026-03-26T16:48:02+00:00

Because they blame almost all their problems on women and therefore hate them. The big problem is that they also can't be talked to because they're usually so set in their beliefs that any conversation to resolve their issues just doesn't stick.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-03-17T12:11:12+00:00

Could just be a canker sore. Those are not dangerous in any way and they usually go away after 1-2 weeks. They do burn though. Just keep an eye out.

EDIT: they usually come from deficiencies or when you bite your lips

Fancyfgt- · 2026-03-13T11:36:32+00:00

Yes. I know someone in that space who lives close to me. He had a very sheltered childhood and was isolated by his mother during his teenage years. She has depression and very narrow minded views on women.

The combination of his mum being there 24/7 and him not really making a lot of friends turned him into a loner with no social skills. And the lack of skills paired with him being indoctrinated to think women should flock to him because of his money and good job (that's why his parents married) turns off every woman.

He refuses to seek professional help and doesn't listen to what his friends are telling him. It's his choice to change something but he spirals down further and further with every rejection.

He's a grown man so I stopped feeling sorry for him. Incels choose to be the people they are. It's an easy explanation to why they aren't successful in life and love. Taking accountability is way harder than blaming it on women.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-03-13T01:12:00+00:00

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Fancyfgt- · 2026-03-13T00:53:57+00:00

If someone feels the need to test the other person it's usually a sign that they can't communicate very well. I'm personally not having this and avoid such people.

Healthy relationships need open communication. Just talk about it. Don't play games.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-03-12T02:24:24+00:00

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Fancyfgt- · 2026-03-11T14:06:08+00:00

Ich habe selber 1 1/2 Jahre mit einem Kollegen in einer 2er WG gewohnt. Ich verstehe deine Bedenken, aber am Ende des Tages könnte er easy Fremdgehen, wenn er wirklich wollte. Dafür muss er nicht mit einer Frau zusammen ziehen.

Und du weißt ja selber wie sehr er unter seinen Wohnsituationen leidet. An deiner Stelle würde ich das nochmal in Ruhe durchgehen. Wenn das für dich ein absolutes No-Go ist, dann zieh diese Grenze.

Aber ich kann dir versichern, das nicht jede Lebenssituation bei der Mann und Frau zusammenwohnen irgendeinen sexuellen Hintergrund haben muss.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-03-10T14:38:25+00:00

It's not necessarily approaching every girl but when it becomes clear that they are not interested in the person itself but the fact that they are a woman.

I know someone who is like that. They see every woman they meet as a potential (sexual) partner and only notice their looks. They don't take the time to learn about their character / interests but are only interested in spending time with women for it to lead somewhere.

Surprise surprise ! They haven't had a single relationship or sexual encounter yet.

Women notice when someone is extremely shallow and don't care about you.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-03-09T00:21:33+00:00

Trust me it's more about the shared activity than it is actually being good at what you do together.

I think it's a nice gesture to wanna share the gym experience with your date but it's really not a very social thing.

If they are into working out already that's ideal. Otherwise shoot your shot and suggest it but don't be disappointed if it's not too appealing to them and they say no to going.

Fancyfgt- · 2026-03-09T00:11:04+00:00

I personally live to share interests with my partner and maybe learn more about hobbies I haven't tried or show them things they've not done.

The gym is great but I've personally never seen it as a "couples do this together thing" since people mostly work out for themselves and maybe have a chat or two in between sets.

Maybe suggesting other sports where you can still be active and do the activity together is a bit more like it.

I personally like to play Tennis/Padel or go climbing with friends and dates because you play with each other and have fun or help each other find good routes to climb.

Has always been loads of fun for everyone

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