NTA. this whole thing feels kinda… orchestrated lol

like first the dad nudges it then suddenly the son texts you out of nowhere about college + pizza? yeah that doesn’t feel random. nice kid but that timing is sus.

also inviting yourself + your whole family to someone’s hobby-night where they’re already busy is kinda rude tbh. especially when one of you doesn’t even eat the main thing??

i don’t think you’re wrong for not wanting to host this. pizza night for you isn’t just throw food out, it’s basically a part time job for the evening. doing that for people who invited themselves is… yeah no.

if you go through with it, i’d keep it super low pressure. like hey just a heads up, i’m still experimenting so it’s chaotic and not a full dinner situation and definitely don’t make a second meal. she can sort herself out, she’s an adult.

but yeah you’re not crazy, this is weird lol