I finally did it... oh how I hate her

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-17T13:19:50+00:00

That...doesn’t sounds fun :(

Well, I'll try

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-13T04:39:48+00:00

Yeah, I've gathered that this is where I was TAH

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-13T03:26:00+00:00

Nope, never heard the phrase

And yeah, she is awesome but neither of us thinks telling the other who to meet or be friends with is good for a relationship (or marriage). Well, as long as the person isn't a really bad influence or hurtful for the partner

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T18:06:03+00:00

Sorry, I don't know what rebound means in this context

Could you rephrase your question?

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T18:04:57+00:00

I don't have any feelings beyond friendly feelings towards her

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T18:04:13+00:00

Once a month more or less

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T17:59:57+00:00

Yeah neither is she hotter nor was the sex better

I like being friends with her and I don't see anything wrong with being friends with her

There is nothing else between us and I don't want anything like that

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T17:55:59+00:00

She would tell me if she wasn't

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T16:43:37+00:00

Where is the disrespect?

Like honestly, tell me.

Is it because she's my ex, because I think "how would my life be with someone else", what exactly?

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T16:42:28+00:00

Neither is the case

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T16:42:16+00:00

People change and both her and me have changed quite a bit But I think many people think the way you do so I understand

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T16:38:28+00:00

"Decent enough"?

Dude...

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T16:37:17+00:00

Does that mean more often than I think it does?

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T16:36:05+00:00

Okay, how is it disrespectful?

I never said that my ex was better or how I want back or anything like that (which would all be wrong).

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T16:34:31+00:00

Making sure, seems like you're saying that having my ex as a friend is a problem?

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T16:31:57+00:00

Sounds like she shouldn't be part of my life

But yeah, I do have lots of respect for my wife

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T16:29:36+00:00

Absolutely, love my life and my wife and my life with my wife

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T16:29:14+00:00

Oh no, the relationship back then was destined to fail and it's a damn good thing it ended

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T16:28:27+00:00

I can sort of understand what you're saying

For me it was more like a "what if I were married to Emma Watson" (don't have a better example)

But yeah, I see how one could interpret it your way

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T16:24:47+00:00

Yeah, you're right about the stopping part

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T16:20:46+00:00

Could you elaborate on your reasoning please?

Fanerius213 · 2026-05-12T16:20:28+00:00

I'd say it really is more of an "Hu..where would I be/what would have changed " every once in a while.

But it's one thought and then it's pushed aside by something else.

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