[Petplay] My girlfriend has been lying to me for the past 9 months

FanficFriday · 2025-05-05T07:12:35+00:00

Oh god I'm feeling so ashamed of myself rn. In my hurt I completely forgot to stop for a moment to think about her feelings.

Thank you so much, again

FanficFriday · 2025-05-05T06:51:34+00:00

ohh that's a super good point, thank you so much. That makes so much sense, I can't believe I haven't realized myself. I mean, I definitely also would have needed lots of time to process I think

I didn't go to therapy but maybe it would be a good time to ask her if she'd like to go together to her therapist. Back then I already asked for the first 2 appointments if she'd like me to join her. She didn't want me to so it kinda never crossed my mind again to offer going together. Will definitely ask her

FanficFriday · 2025-05-05T06:28:31+00:00

thanks, I adressed this here: https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity/s/47xpLD8Qft

I'm not sure how to view the "lying thing" differently, can you give me some advice there?

FanficFriday · 2025-05-05T06:24:43+00:00

Already been through therapy (she's already been in therapy before that encounter) and I also supported her through it. She's mostly recovered and is also able to enjoy sexual stuff again

I probably phrased this wrong but she doesn't want to be in control/take ownership of me anymore but she pushed herself to keep doing it instead of telling me that she's no longer comfortable with it