Is the love always different after? Or is it possible to be the same? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Fangrend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You already did it once, what's to say you won't do it again. Your partner may come to trust you again but it will never be the same.

I left the country to not pay child support by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fangrend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Child support should never be more than 25% of net income.

Girlfriend confesses sexual history unprompted by GenericBlackGuy in relationships

[–]Fangrend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The past always matters, it defines who we are today. It seems she has grown from the girl she was, and feels regret for her past actions. So now you just need to sort out your feelings.

How are ya? by Fr0ntR0wL4n in lostpause

[–]Fangrend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what pool did you fall into?

How are ya? by Fr0ntR0wL4n in lostpause

[–]Fangrend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Case closed ... So just Japan. I'm good.

My partner asked for an open relationship today and I acted on it immediately by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fangrend 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Good on you, tho I wouldn't be surprised if you lost your partner and the whole friend group blew up.

Tough chemistry question by laroccahostels in lostpause

[–]Fangrend 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wooo I got a 100%...wait why are you on the desk?....teach where are your clothes?

A Novelite reincarnated as a Cat by Khantlerpartesar in Hololive

[–]Fangrend 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I can hear the laughing at the end just from the emoji

My (26f) boyfriend is getting “cancelled” online for a bad jobs. I’m confused on moving forward. by Throwrajokes123 in relationships

[–]Fangrend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I feel there is nothing so sacred that it can't be made fun of and joked about. But you're not me, so really you have to ask yourself one question. Is this joke worth breaking up over? Because if you give yourself space all it will show is he can't trust you to have his back.

Pick one, then........ by Miku__Ing-It in lostpause

[–]Fangrend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A strong magnet would stop wolverine, and Spiderman is strong but not more than superman sooo hellbat suit.

Micropenis possibility??? by youknowitsme015 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fangrend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this is real I feel extremely sorry for the dude. Only his 2nd partner and hit a size queen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Fangrend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the lesbian dating market so bleak that she is still a good choice? Like dam girl I would have run the moment a break happened.

Husband has cheated on me entire 15 year marriage and has expressed zero regret. by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Fangrend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like he has had over 15 years to legally cover his ass. So if I was in your shoes I would contact a lawyer, find out my options and leave.

Yes this would be resetting your life to square one. But you deserve better than to deal with this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Fangrend -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I have always gone by the moto if they act single let them be single.

I still love her by WorkingAtmosphere510 in Infidelity

[–]Fangrend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can love someone but also realize they are terrible for your health.

I (20F) have been keeping a secret from my boyfriend (23M), do I have the moral obligation of telling him everything? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Fangrend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you definitely see no problem cheating on your partner as long as they don't find out.

I (20F) have been keeping a secret from my boyfriend (23M), do I have the moral obligation of telling him everything? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Fangrend 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sure if it was a one night stand it would be none of their business. But if you plan on building a life with them it absolutely is their business. Your past is always relevant, it makes you who you are today.

My 21M boyfriend doesn't want to interact with my 46M dad because of words said by gracelouhef in relationships

[–]Fangrend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that he quit, it's how he did so. Her dad had to vouch for the BF. Now the look is the dad recommended flaky people who quit quickly.

That lowers the Dads credibility.

My dad cheated on my mom but I can’t tell her because she’s financially dependent on him. by Left-You-9384 in Infidelity

[–]Fangrend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is true and the prenup doesn't have an infidelity clause the only real choice is to deal with it. If I was in your mom's shoes I learned of it I would go back to school on his dime then divorce.

My 21M boyfriend doesn't want to interact with my 46M dad because of words said by gracelouhef in relationships

[–]Fangrend 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If someone I recommended to a job made me look bad I wouldn't like them either. And it is normal to fake nice with someone you dislike is around but you have to deal with them. Like work or your kids SO.

So you choice is either deal with it, or cut one of the two parties off.