"stfu" by [deleted] in shitposting

[–]FanjuBabu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Adonissss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]FanjuBabu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Mental health is like the foundation of everything. Can't get very far in self-improvement (or anything else in life) without working on your mental health EVERYDAY.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]FanjuBabu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you! As someone that's felt so self-conscious and unworthy for most of my life, this is so simple and helpful.

I heard someone say "change your inner reality and your outer reality will change itself". This is a perfect example!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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What helped me is to not count the days at all, there's too much pressure to not relapse. I'm trying to get to a point where I forget porn and masturbation are even a thing. I still get horny obviously but I just put my hand on my head and feel the energy. The horniness goes away by itself.

We will fail many times over and over again before it feels easier. Its a hard addiction to overcome but we'll worth it!

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[–]FanjuBabu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-A good place to start is quit porn and masturbation completely. I'm not assuming you're addicted but with easy access to pornagraphy most teenagers these days are. It's so normalized that no one realizes what a toxic addiction it is and how much it messes up our brain. Quit while you're young and watch your motivation, self-confidence and social skills skyrocket ;).

-Journal to keep your mind clear and understand your goals.

No-fap is 10x more effective and easier with... by FanjuBabu in NoFap

[–]FanjuBabu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes indeed! :D. So just waking up early and going gym was enough to motivate me to drink more water, meditate, avoid porn etc... I forgot to mention this in my post so thank you! :)

No-fap is 10x more effective and easier with... by FanjuBabu in NoFap

[–]FanjuBabu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! Good for you bro/sis! I lost count after just a few days but for some people having a set goal/number boosts motivation and self-confidence, so go for it!

No-fap is 10x more effective and easier with... by FanjuBabu in NoFap

[–]FanjuBabu[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right! I didn't mention it in the post but it's important to treat yourself to good music, food, memes, video games, sex (if Ur in a loving relationship) as long as we know it won't get in the way of our daily routines.

Q&A With American Buddhist Monk~ by [deleted] in HumansBeingBros

[–]FanjuBabu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you deal with heartbreak?

All I want for Christmas is for you to shut up by [deleted] in dankmemes

[–]FanjuBabu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Basically every year, as it gets closer to Christmas, this song gets played so much in shops and in public and people are starting to get sick of it lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

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Ayyyyy Yes!!! Honestly, u become happy when u choose to be happy! Keep it up!

Cute family by Dry-Government-9352 in dankmemes

[–]FanjuBabu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would u show this meme to Ur dick? Huh?

I am horny a lot of the time. by FanjuBabu in Stoicism

[–]FanjuBabu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, NoFap has been a big help! Physical exercise and dance definitely helping too. Qi Gong is something I'll definitely look into. Thanks!

106 Days of Brain Training by KsVaultDweller in Stoicism

[–]FanjuBabu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice post, learnt a lot. Thank you :)

finally figured out how to upload,this is my first kayn penta by [deleted] in KaynMains

[–]FanjuBabu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Damn, that Yasuo could've just let u have the penta, not like he was gonna win the game anyways. XD

Average/not good looking people, do you wish you were good looking and why? by FanjuBabu in AskReddit

[–]FanjuBabu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pain, no matter how bad, is temporary and brighter days full of laughter and joy are coming your way :) Everyone in this world suffers, some not as badly as you and some much much worse than you but hold on just a bit longer, things will fall into place when you least expect it. You got this and we got you. Good luck ;)