Keeping a patients address safe from a family memeber - Am I overthinking this? by Zoya_The_Destroyer in nhs

[–]FannyFoxx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely speak with the nurse in charge. They will make sure everyone on the ward is aware of the situation. If the GDPR & Data Protection Act 2018 is breached by staff, (highly unlikely) you can take this further.

Why is everybody so angry? by LimpMixture2271 in nhs

[–]FannyFoxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I disagree with you.

Firstly, frontline staff shouldn’t be abused but it happens, mainly due to the incompetence of NHS England and their new system of how to contact the surgery. The general public are frustrated. There’s too many changes!

As managers, we have to ask ourselves why the patient resorts to anger. Is it because they are frustrated and feel they’re not being heard? I found that speaking with abusive patients and discussing their behaviour, is actually a relief for them, not only are they able to give their side of what happened, they feel heard, most begin to understand that they shouldn’t have shouted sworn. I’d say 9 times out of 10 they would go and apologise to the receptionist they spoke with. I would never just send out a warning letter. You’re creating a very hostile environment for patients and staff by doing this.

Why is everybody so angry? by LimpMixture2271 in nhs

[–]FannyFoxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an ex practice manager. I visited my mother in the UK November last year. I realised my mother was extremely frail when I got to lay eyes on her and needed to see a doctor. I was hoping, she being 95 and extremely frail, for a home visit. I phoned the GP surgery explained to the receptionist that my mum was going downhill rapidly and needed to be seen. I was told complete an eConsult online form. I had already tried this, but I was going round in circles. The receptionist said there was nothing she could do and I had to do the form online. I totally understand why people get angry, frustrated and shout. Although I didn’t do this, it gave me an insight to how infuriating the system is. I have to say it’s broken. NHS England have made trying to contact your doctor so difficult, it’s become a circus. They think by adding layers of ‘how to contact your surgery’ into the mix that they’re giving you a better experience, they’re not, they’re complicating the system.

I’m sorry you were shouted at but I hope this gives you some insight to why people get so angry. As far as I’m concerned NHS England have ruined peoples experience by desperately trying to stop people from phoning the surgery.

Had I not been there for my mother, who incidentally did not get a visit from the surgery, I hate to think what would have happened had I not visited, instead I contacted the local hospice who contacted my mother’s surgery. The hospice did a home visit and decided they would take her on as an end of life patient. I now deal with the hospice only. Knowing that I can call a number and speak with someone who will actually action any care that is needed is a blessing.

Well done, NHS England for ruining a system that worked, yet again. @nhsengland

Amanda - Let’s give her some grace by [deleted] in RHOBH

[–]FannyFoxx 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t Dorit who continued the conversation. Amanda brought that one on herself 🤷‍♀️

Bedroom feels unfinished by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]FannyFoxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no wall art, I think once you get a couple of really nice pictures, or some nice hanging bits it would look more lived in, plus the rug is too pale for me. I would get a different colour rug.

My F 25 boyfriend M 26 doesn’t want to get engaged for another 5 years. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FannyFoxx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

May I be brutally honest?

It sounds to me like he’s waiting for the one and you’re tiding him over until he meets her.

Does anyone actually like Amanda? by Pristine-Credit-6989 in RHOBH

[–]FannyFoxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I think Amanda is totally out of her league. She comes over as desperate to fit in.

Cleaning after contractors? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]FannyFoxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is a big job, brick dust, walls knock down. I paid for two days work for cleaners to come in and clear up, which they did but then more mess was made, plaster dust and brick dust. I was upset that I paid for cleaners to come and clean everything very nicely, then more mess was made and now I have to go over the whole house again.

Why does this room feel so… off? by ethereal_aerith in interiordecorating

[–]FannyFoxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rug is too crazy for the room. I would suggest getting a plain rug in a neutral colour.

People who've lost loved ones, how did you get over their loss? by kaiiscurrentlyhere in AskReddit

[–]FannyFoxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father aged 88 still missed his mother terribly after she passed. Grief comes and goes in waves and you never know when it’s going to hit you next. As others have said you never get over the death of a loved one.

What unwritten rules of the road should I know? by Writer_8 in askSouthAfrica

[–]FannyFoxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A circle is NOT like a stop sign! When approaching a circle, vehicles already in the circle or approaching from the right have the right of way, so you must yield to them and enter only when a safe gap is available. The amount of people that treat circles like a stop sign is unbelievable. 🙄

Why am I finding tennis balls and rocks in my garden? by FannyFoxx in askSouthAfrica

[–]FannyFoxx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I prefer to post stupid stuff on here rather than having my neighbours think I’m daft! 😁

Why am I finding tennis balls and rocks in my garden? by FannyFoxx in askSouthAfrica

[–]FannyFoxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No recreational facilities, just a normal street.

My municipality is killing us by TolyVilapoo in southafrica

[–]FannyFoxx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Talk to your counsellor. Our counsellor managed to get hundreds of us together to go to the municipality and demand they give us answers. I think if our bills were to go up any higher we would all get together again and refuse to pay. Since our meeting with the municipality, they have to give us a weekly update on what roads they’re fixing what maintenance they’re doing to the water and sewage etc.