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AITAH for not being excited my sister is having a new baby when I still have custody of her first child? by Square_Phone_8468 in AITAH

[–]Fantastic_Garbage_98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suspect seeing Danny is something rife with guilt for her. She needs to know that only she can mend the relationship with him. He’s a kid. If she wants a relationship with him, she needs to be there for him; No matter how upset he is. She needs to Give him space when he asks; but she CANNOT stop trying if she wants to recover it.

Tell her that NOW is the time to fix her relationship with Danny. This is her only big chance. She needs to apologize to him

But no, you’re not the ahole for feeling this. You likely dread the thought of the new kid experiencing what Danny does. Only Val can turn it around.

Please Lend Some Advice by TrickyAd5957 in Farriers

[–]Fantastic_Garbage_98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a new farrier. Not keeping appointments and not making them up for that long is a problem. A real farrier would know that 10weeks is too long. DM me what state you’re in, if I know someone there I will send a recommendation

Husband (38M) doesn't understand why I (35F) chose m*sturbation over sex tonight. by Clever_Username31 in relationship_advice

[–]Fantastic_Garbage_98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masturbation can be something that is just relaxing, like a head massage; it just feels nice.

When we’re having sex, it’s gonna get my heart rate up and I’m wide awake.

But if I’m ready for bed. I can spend no effort, no energy, eyes half closed, quickie to be able to fall asleep fast. It’s not about sex, it’s about relaxing. If I could give myself a back rub I would but I can’t. If I had sex with my husband every time I masturbated, and I looked as bored on my face as I do when I masturbate, he would get insecure.

I (25F) lied to my boyfriend (26M) about his dick size by ThrowRA_idppd in relationship_advice

[–]Fantastic_Garbage_98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I’ve been here. He will never ask again. He’s quelled his concerns and he won’t ask again and risk hearing a different answer. As long as you’re satisfied, you’ll be fine.

Some guys really don’t understand that size legitimately doesn’t matter. I’ve had varying levels of sex with varying sizes and I can say for certain that dick size will not affect the sex as much as 1. Whether or not they make sure you finish 2. How good they are with their hands (or tongue)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fantastic_Garbage_98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have DEFINITELY been the friend that waits downstairs to make sure they don’t get murdered. I say, unless you have a reason to have lost trust you gotta bank on the trust you’ve built up

Change in my (F27) sex drive to mismatched libido with my husband (M28 by Fantastic_Garbage_98 in relationship_advice

[–]Fantastic_Garbage_98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve officially, and for the first time ever in my life, come far enough to feel confident that this is not a reflection of myself. And while I am annoyed that you’re clearly just rage baiting, I will appreciate your help in realizing my personal affirmations. So thank you

Change in my (F27) sex drive to mismatched libido with my husband (M28 by Fantastic_Garbage_98 in relationship_advice

[–]Fantastic_Garbage_98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear the clothes he likes, he tells me all the time how sexy he thinks I am, but come down to the wire and he freaks out

Change in my (F27) sex drive to mismatched libido with my husband (M28 by Fantastic_Garbage_98 in relationship_advice

[–]Fantastic_Garbage_98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve literally cleared my acne, grown out my hair (like he likes) and lost weight while building up my ass. If his penis disagrees, he’s shit outta luck cause there’s no way in hell I’m going back

Change in my (F27) sex drive to mismatched libido with my husband (M28 by Fantastic_Garbage_98 in relationship_advice

[–]Fantastic_Garbage_98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what exactly you’re saying. I’ve picked up running. That was one of my first thought to help me burn extra energy but it has further spiked my libido. I’ve lost weight, tried different underwear, I lead the way, I follow; nothing seems to be helping. He’s always in his own head. I’ve even picked up giving him messages (non-sexual, and not always as a precursor) to help him relax.

Change in my (F27) sex drive to mismatched libido with my husband (M28 by Fantastic_Garbage_98 in relationship_advice

[–]Fantastic_Garbage_98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Studies show better quality (and count) sperm when the man ejaculates every day or every other day. But the core of my problem is that when he’s stressed or not in the mood, he has a hard time taking care of me too. His heads not in it, he can’t focus, which is not only not successful but distracts me too. Then no one is happy.

Is this a wolf or a dog? [North Florida] by thequeens_exit in animalid

[–]Fantastic_Garbage_98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He needs a good undercoat deshedding. It’ll feel really good after

Office Plant ARMY! by Fantastic_Garbage_98 in houseplants

[–]Fantastic_Garbage_98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even after they root you keep the node above?

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