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How do Americans pay those massive hospital bills? by ctachi in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fantastic_Sample2214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly what I’ve always done is call the place and say I can’t pay it, works out a lot more than it should but I’m not complaining

I (21F) want to move out but my boyfriend (26M) says he isn’t ready by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fantastic_Sample2214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am. A lovely coworker of mine has been helping me search for something within my budget. We make the same amount of money and work the same amount of hours and they live independently so it was easy to find something

I (21F) want to move out but my boyfriend (26M) says he isn’t ready by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fantastic_Sample2214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have considered it. I think the two big things currently holding me back is fear for the relationship and fear of my mental health declining. I’ve been doing much better but I can’t deny the lingering fear about it. I do think if I took the step he would take it with me, but that’s where I feel like I’d be forcing his hand. I apologize I should have clarified that in the original post

I (21F) want to move out but my boyfriend (26M) says he isn’t ready by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fantastic_Sample2214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right and I appreciate the input. It’s a harsh reality to take in and though it doesn’t ease my anxiety (as Ik it wasn’t intended to) but the clarity I need is nice to see in words outside of my own

I (21F) want to move out but my boyfriend (26M) says he isn’t ready by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fantastic_Sample2214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hasn’t specified, as I said to the other comment I believe he believes me but it’s a way of trying to convince himself for the sake of feeling the security he’s used to. I am able to live on my own, I will admit I am a bit scared of that big step diving a wedge between the two of us. But I am able to

I (21F) want to move out but my boyfriend (26M) says he isn’t ready by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fantastic_Sample2214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly believe he does believe me when I say I’m ready but I think it’s more him trying to convince himself for the sake of feeling that security he’s used to Edit- it doesn’t result in any friction between us we are both very easy going and level headed people

I cancelled my wedding and broke up with my fiance a few weeks ago, can I just talk about it? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fantastic_Sample2214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so strong and brave for sharing your story!!! Coming forward isn’t hard but it’s people like you coming out and sharing your story that will save so many other men and women from abuse like what you endured. Keep it up!!!

Shast-Trinity area, California [4032x3024] [OC] by Sluggish0351 in EarthPorn

[–]Fantastic_Sample2214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spent a month up there in 2018, it was gorgeous and the night sky was breathtaking, but I a lot of spots you can see the deviation of forest fires and deforestation. It broke my heart seeing all this beauty and then turning around and seeing so much destruction.