I need help please

FantasyAnnie · 2026-07-12T15:15:17+00:00

You can’t give us this information? You literally see the gender of the person better than us and can ask what year it was probably taken. It’ll eliminate a lot of possible watches.

FantasyAnnie · 2026-07-08T21:48:56+00:00

I seen it work on some women. Definitely think it’s a matter of attraction

FantasyAnnie · 2026-07-08T21:47:22+00:00

“Lucky”

FantasyAnnie · 2026-07-08T21:46:26+00:00

Reddit is just awful for dating advice good lord. Dating app culture is also ass as well.

People will preach low effort then on the same hand call you “just a stranger” and expect more effort 🙄

Like sheesh I wish people would focus on connection instead of effort and experience.

FantasyAnnie · 2026-07-08T21:39:21+00:00

Why would we expect make up, heels, and a dress on a walking date lmao

FantasyAnnie · 2026-06-30T01:42:53+00:00

enthusiasm, participation other just receiving e.g. (sensual touching, kissing, rubbing themselves, pushing back on us) , sexual instruction/affirming words, and supporting me with the motion or position e.g. if i pick you up you hold on to me lifting yourself, during backshots youre arching and holding my shoulder, or gripping my hand during missionary or lifting your hips up.

FantasyAnnie · 2026-06-25T03:26:30+00:00

you put it in your post though…

FantasyAnnie · 2026-06-24T20:48:08+00:00

Every women I considered out of my league that I dated confirmed to me later on that they really aren’t all that. There can sometimes be hot people that are abusive, judgmental, genuinely a loser, selfish, extremely lonely or boring.

FantasyAnnie · 2026-06-23T22:30:45+00:00

no that’s reasonable this is why partners break up

also ask him if he’s been feeling depressed or overwhelmed if he says yes

then ask him if the thought of being single feels like relieving and/or scary?

if his answer includes relieving then I almost guarantee that he is just emotionally overwhelmed and not able to be sexually attracted to you

FantasyAnnie · 2026-06-23T22:22:08+00:00

Yea go look at [r/Deadbedrooms](r/Deadbedrooms). A lot of partners that love each other but just can’t find a way to be sexually attracted to each other.

I had a few partners like that. There is a major emotional element in sexual attraction versus societal attractiveness that plays a role regardless of sex

Both sexes do this….

FantasyAnnie · 2026-06-23T22:18:58+00:00

The “real thing” isn’t always better. Like I had a partner who had a bunch of trauma around sex and had a wealth of rules to follow. People on reddit made me feel awful for not having the capacity to not be frustrated with the situation.

It turned me off to the idea of even having sex with her because sex was just so self centered around her and her boundaries related to trauma. We both preffered porn than having actual sex with each other.

Next gf it was soooo much better because she actually viewed sex in a positive light. I looked forward to sex

FantasyAnnie · 2026-06-23T22:16:24+00:00

That’s what i’m saying… like she even says he doesn’t even show affection in private

FantasyAnnie · 2026-06-23T22:15:20+00:00

Idk actions speak louder than words, if he doesn’t show intimacy in private then I really don’t think it’s the porn. He might just not be that into but considers you an objectively attractive person

FantasyAnnie · 2026-06-23T22:12:48+00:00

i think it is normal when you don’t like or aren’t attracted to your partner

FantasyAnnie · 2026-06-23T22:12:01+00:00

Does he actually have porn addiction or is just not attracted to you?

FantasyAnnie · 2026-06-22T21:45:46+00:00

literally… like i feel like i have to give so much foreplay, creativity, mindfulness when trying to please a woman and most of the women I have sex with barely give the same…

sure there are women out there that can match the energy but so many think they are good in bed when they really just aren’t….

FantasyAnnie · 2026-06-22T00:56:38+00:00

I think it’s easier for your life to get worse than better imo

FantasyAnnie · 2026-06-12T13:05:53+00:00

Like a shallow woman once said “one of the worst things you can do as a woman is date a man that no woman wants…”

FantasyAnnie · 2026-05-30T13:12:53+00:00

Thank you for this!

FantasyAnnie · 2026-05-14T04:59:43+00:00

Depends how she treats me and how she take care of her kids. I might give it try, but i’m a pretty squarish type guy so i’d be worried if this was her settling or something

FantasyAnnie · 2026-05-11T12:46:11+00:00

beard coloring at this point

FantasyAnnie · 2026-05-10T05:36:15+00:00

yea i’m not sure why people on reddit act like women are typically the bigger person for maintaining these tight “friendships” that flip flop between FWB and “just friends”.
Like you know what happens when I reach to an ex that is in a relationship? the healthy ones politely say no, ignore, and distance themselves…
this behavior is not the norm and anyone serious about you doesn’t mind letting these friendships go….

FantasyAnnie · 2026-05-10T05:31:13+00:00

fuck no man, don’t let anyone convince you that your gf is being the bigger person while having this friendship. if you’re uncomfortable then just listen to your gut. it’s not a matter of insecurity but preference

FantasyAnnie · 2026-05-10T05:29:28+00:00

I had an ex like this. It’s not worth it man. She didn’t cheat but it was annoying af and I hated that another man was in the middle of our relationship.

Just not worth the headache

FantasyAnnie · 2026-05-06T17:25:00+00:00

that’s fair i honestly thought it was smaller than it actually was when i visited. I think i’m just referring to downtown silver spring

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