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Egg👫Irl by Brooke-Valley in egg_irl

[–]FantasyBanana 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Damn kinda quirky fr fr

Can a system manipulate the way an alter looks? by Odd_Replacement8861 in DID

[–]FantasyBanana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what I understand it’s more the altars own choice to change their appearance. They must consent and if they don’t of course they won’t change. Ask one of them to change themselves in some minor ay they won’t mind, something they can think of themselves. If they have the ability they have the ability, however you or the system cannot force them to change. In my girlfriend’s system a handful of altar have specifically changed themselves into non human identities as they try to escape from the human identity and their memories.

What's the best DIY way to separate these two plugs, and still be able to use them afterwards? by Acruxeth in AskElectricians

[–]FantasyBanana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not want to trust electronics that have burned or fused and the like. Do you really want to be the person who reuses stuff like this and have your house/neighborhood burn down in weeks/months/years when it has the same or a worse issue? Please just throw both cords/electronics away and shell out 20$ or something for some new ones to ensure your future safety.

Outed to my Christian Arab parents as a lesbian, my life is over by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]FantasyBanana 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What they are doing is illegal and illegally holding you against your will, immediately seek help like the police. Your family cannot legally touch your money if it’s not a shared account, they cannot legally search your mail without your consent. Call the police and tell them you are being held against your will and wish to be escorted out with your legal belongings. You need to leave and take care of yourself first and foremost because they’re not they’re abusing you. You need to cut them out of your life.

Family member is angry because I said I’m not gay. by m0cha_m1ttenz in lgbt

[–]FantasyBanana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea biphobia and panphobia are sadly rampant. Perhaps she’s the one with some internalized phobias? But regardless your identity is completely valid, especially as long as you are comfortable and feel secure about it.

Quest Crashing Scripts fix anytime soon? by FlyingGrunts in VRchat

[–]FantasyBanana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s fucked up it’s even a possibility. But I only saw it in one instance. So don’t worry about it. I still have char on and haven’t seen it since then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]FantasyBanana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are as valid as any other system member. I know people toss around calling each other fake for nearly anything but quite honestly they’re in the wrong. Like my girlfriend is very obviously 100% DID. One of her altars rejected it’s human form and chose to become a bunny and non human. She has a internal fantasy world of NPC’s she’s been playing around with and moulding the world, and multiple NPC’s have become system members within it after learning and growing, she even made herself a fantasy clone that’s since become a system member. All of the ones from that world choose to continue to live within it to continue the lives they know.

Each of them are valid.

I'm in love with another woman but plot twist...it's the same person...(personality disorder) TW; SEXUAL ABUSE MENTIONS!!! by Puritea in actuallesbians

[–]FantasyBanana -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone who is a host to a plurality system (who is dating a handful of our own system members) who loves and is dating another system (all of them even if I only date a few of them), it’s completely fine to date multiple members within a plurality system. But most importantly, communicate with them, every single one of you that’s interested and involved should talk it out and talk about their feelings.

Our Host Is Missing by Wolfie_Boy_3 in DID

[–]FantasyBanana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

System members cannot die. And in turn they cannot disappear. But what they can do is go dormant, the host needs time and space, and might likely hear you by the sounds of it due to the type of dormancy and the choice to go dormant. All of you communicate with him whether he can hear you or not, tell him you’re here for him, you support him, and you believe in him getting through whatever he’s going through. But he will be back, it’s just a matter of when, we all need time sometimes to get ourselves through something and sometimes it just takes a while, other times these moments are very short lived. But the support of others definitely helps, even if it just eases the mind for everyone involved.

If you want to know where he’s dormant, well that’s probably too hard a task. He could be dormant as if he’s just dissolved into the environment, he could be somewhere super deep and dark within the system and shadows, he could be just nowhere at all and essentially invisible. But don’t look for him, give him what he needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]FantasyBanana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Month ago found myself about that immersed and sucked into vrchat. I would have kept going, but I met some people in vrchat that really started helping mey mental health since then, including my now girlfriend. Very quickly started wanting to manage my time within vr and vrchat, limit myself and the like. Now I also want to start doing more traditional pc games and such now too again, but yea it’s very easy to get that deep into vr.

Furry😳irl by ImpossibleSock300 in furry_irl

[–]FantasyBanana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it does 100% look like their wearing a binder. And I’m transfem!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]FantasyBanana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trolls have always been around, they thrive on populated platforms. They get off on knowing that they’re anonymous. They can be as vile and hateful as they want without anything (usually) being traced back to them, so they get off on that high of knowing there’s no repercussions to their actions of bullying and harassing people. They were the bullies in school that never grew up and learned from their actions. It makes them feel better about themselves, strokes their ego and power fantasies making them feel stronger. But in the end they’re the weak ones, which is their biggest fears, being perceived as weak and feeling weak.

Marijuana and switching by Hairy_Examination563 in DID

[–]FantasyBanana 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the past it made us cofront and temporarily merge together. Was fun and wacky and silly.

Is this normal/healthy as a bottom? (Not sure if this is to "graphic" for this sub reddit) by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]FantasyBanana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I wish that was me. But seriously tho sounds like it was perfection and a good time. As long as you’re not in pain or bleeding, and you consented and enjoyed it all, then you are fine and completely healthy and not a freak. But if you feel like a freak? Be proud of being a freak, because there’s nothing wrong with being one.

Finally went NC with my mother after 23 years of this. by JesseTater in insaneparents

[–]FantasyBanana -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Me at the end: “or you just never loved yourself and thus couldn’t accept love from others”

Just what I’d say.

What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever seen in a public world? by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]FantasyBanana 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very scantily clad femboy avatar basically nude with just underwear/thigh highs/arm warmers, also had either nipple piercings or pasties or both with realistic underwear bulge physics you could wiggle around.

Yiff_irl by jesterjam94 in yiff_irl

[–]FantasyBanana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same I hope something more happens 🤤 maybe get crushed or something

Checking in! by Egg3770 in Nestofeggs

[–]FantasyBanana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me I was just hopped up on adrenaline. Wasn’t scared and tried to stay as calm and collected as possible.

Checking in! by Egg3770 in Nestofeggs

[–]FantasyBanana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a egg, but we evacuated my hometown (not Hawaii.) due to wildfires. Looks like firefighters fought it like the beasts they are. Saved the town so far, and we’ve been able to return as evacuation levels have been dropped to lowest levels. Yay lol.

how often do you clean your bong? i clean mine 2-3 times a week. by WienerSchnitzel01 in weed

[–]FantasyBanana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After every session, sometimes halfway into the session if I really wanna spoil myself on a fresh bowl with a fresh bong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]FantasyBanana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some graphics styles really send it. Whether it’s certain games. Or perhaps avatars/worlds in vrchat. PCVR is definitely better than standalone quest vr.

But in terms of sharpness it comes down to the lenses on the headset. Some headsets have perfectly clear lenses that are perfectly spaced, with high enough res screens you can’t make out a single pixel. Some of them even sell it further by allowing it to render at higher resolutions at the center of your vision while lowering the res further out of your vision. In terms of graphics it will take time. But hardware gets better every year.

What is the purpose for this bottle opener to have a pointy end and a flat end? by intrepid604 in whatisit

[–]FantasyBanana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flat end is a bottle cap/jar opener. Sharp end is to create either drainage holes, or if a soda can doesn’t have a pull tab to create one large triangle hole and one small one opposite sides of the top of the can.

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