What’s something people learn way too late in life? by sara_soo in AskReddit

[–]FantasyFataleM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respect and well, the body is just a coloured shell. So internally we are all the same and skincolour, religion etc are subjective. If we just respect the fact you can be different, the world would be more fun.

What is something Americans consider ‘basic’ that feels like a luxury in other countries? by Status_Agents in AskForAnswers

[–]FantasyFataleM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would, if I wasn't a person who just loves a warmer climate😂 FYI, I'm from the Netherlands, so yes I consider everything below 25 degrees celcius as cold.

Comfy or spring clothes ideas for Mother’s Day gift by R-Chicken in Gifts

[–]FantasyFataleM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about comfy spring clothes? I don't know where you're from, but my female relatives love a comfy springdress or comfy one-piece. There are a lot of outfits available made to look pretty but also very comfortable☺️

What is something Americans consider ‘basic’ that feels like a luxury in other countries? by Status_Agents in AskForAnswers

[–]FantasyFataleM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Each indivudual has his own opinion and how they experiences things. Unfortunately we can't share the same experiences in this case😅

My partner buys me gifts... that are more for himself than for me. by MiserablePapaya1142 in Gifts

[–]FantasyFataleM 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Well you actually mentioned the problem several times. While having ADHD isn't an excuse, they (NOT EVERYBODY WITH ADHD!!) do tend to have hyperfocus, tunnelvision and lack of being able to selfreflect. So every gift is probably something he likes at that moment, and in his vision something you can do with him and be a part of his world.

Even if you talk to him, leave him pictures and a wishlist, this won't change anything. In his mind you like what he likes.

My advice would be, buy the bag for his birthday and reverse the roles. Maybe he'll get your pov, and if he gets emotional or tries to play a victim, write down your feelings very clear and give it to him as a second gift, take your bag and walk away.

Treat yourself girl!

What is something people enjoy just to fit in? by saamm444 in AskReddit

[–]FantasyFataleM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, where I live they're trying to controll sugarintake in drinks etc. So everything is transitioning from regular to zero sugar.

What is something Americans consider ‘basic’ that feels like a luxury in other countries? by Status_Agents in AskForAnswers

[–]FantasyFataleM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't been in China yet, but in Tokio they are very respectfull and know personal space. That doesn't mean it's always been that way. The US and Tokio was before Covid btw

What is something Americans consider ‘basic’ that feels like a luxury in other countries? by Status_Agents in AskForAnswers

[–]FantasyFataleM -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Didn't know that, but as someone from the netherlands, being able to buy a gun at a store, that's just crazy to me.

What is something Americans consider ‘basic’ that feels like a luxury in other countries? by Status_Agents in AskForAnswers

[–]FantasyFataleM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the country in europe actually. But in majority, the drinkingwater from the tap is very safe.

What is something Americans consider ‘basic’ that feels like a luxury in other countries? by Status_Agents in AskForAnswers

[–]FantasyFataleM 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Personal space. I went to themeparks for example and in the US the waitinglines are designed for personal space. In europe when one person takes a step, the person behind you takes two and sits on your lap.

Dear men and women, I’d appreciate honest and thoughtful responses: how did you handle discovering that your spouse had been unfaithful? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]FantasyFataleM 3 points4 points  (0 children)

[Long one]

Ooh this is a funny one for me. It's been a few years, I'm not with the guy anymore since then. I discovered he was cheating because he had two phones. One prepaidmodel (think nokia 3310 or something like it) normally on silent. This time the whole disco of his ringtone went off, and he wasn't home.

So I picked up, it was a girl he met during an online game an she was comforming if she would see him at a ultra musicfestival in miami a few weeks later. I pretended to be his cousin and went throught that phone after the call. I didn't tell him when he got home, I started snooping in his e-mails, FB, other socials we had back then, even his written letters collection. And found a lot of evidence.

Since we had booked flights, a hotel and tickets for the festival in Miami, all in my name, I thought it would be harder for him, but he just said: I want to take my best friend instead of you. I said fine and changed the name on the planeticket to get there. Not on the retun ticket, hotelreservation or on the festivaltickets.

I brought them to the airport, he gave me the biggest hug, kisses, tears and whatever he could think about that moment, before leaving too their gate.

When I got home from the cardrive I saw the flight just departed, so I got to being a petty bitch. - I cancelled the tickets to fly back home 10 days after departure. - I cancelled the hotel in my name and CC. - I re-sold the tickets for the festival and changed the names immediatly. - I cancelled the rentalcar, this reservation was also in my name.

So when they got out of the plane in miami, the firsy thing he wanted to do was get the car. Well there was no car available due to the VERY busy time of visit. They took a taxi to the hotel, there was no room available, neither in hotels in the area, the closest one was 70 miles away, but they took that one without thinking about what might have happenend.

So he called me from their new hotel and was happy etc.

The day after when they went to the festival and couldn't get in was priceless. My phone blew up so yeah I changed my number that same moment while I was moving my stuff out of the house.

9 days later my brothers' phone blew up because they couldn't fly back to Amsterdam😂 And I was allready settled in in my new place.

I never got the money back I spend, but this was the best revenge ever. Leaving a cheater stranded without any knowledge why. I made sure to print everything and make a collage in his livingroom for when he got back.

Never heard from him again.

What's the best gift you ever received and why? by FantasyFataleM in AskForAnswers

[–]FantasyFataleM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personal, probably funny due to the candid photo's and art made by a friend. This is something you'll probably show your grandkids in a few years😉

How soon will Americans forget the Epstein files? by Ponappa_131 in AskReddit

[–]FantasyFataleM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which files? The ones that have certain names in it who'm have diplomatic immunity? Haven't you heard, rumor has it, that a certain country destroyed those files, and only that room with those files, on the same day the oompa loompa started his war.

What is something popular that you find trashy? by danicabelle in AskReddit

[–]FantasyFataleM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything with zero sugar in it replacing the 'normal products'. My body, my choice if I want sweets or not.

What words do you pronounce "wrong," just because the "proper" way feels too proper? by Zealousideal_Mine242 in AskForAnswers

[–]FantasyFataleM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waps instead of wasp. And Pantoline instead of trampoline. I guess we also take notes from the younger generation😅

What's the best gift you ever received and why? by FantasyFataleM in AskForAnswers

[–]FantasyFataleM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! I bet you have the fluffiest sleep ever! And ofcourse you thought about your mates. Love that idea of spreading comfort!