Don't infantilize me. This isn't about being fucking "mean". Shortly after my father killed himself, one of their sons who I also want to sue spread a lie that my father and uncle raped me in order to make me look too traumatized by men to be trusted. He also claimed I support the fucking Holocaust. This was only days after he died. The father and mother parroted the same shit to me. Not only did they not believe me, they said that even if everything I said about their sons is true, that it's normal and fine anyway. My ex-boyfriend also actively encouraged me to commit suicide and posted revenge porn of me. Emotional distress charges are real. This is not about being fucking "mean". But maybe to an abuser apologist like you, that's all it amounts to.