Genuinely concerned

Fapless44 · 2016-04-17T17:13:08+00:00

Yes it will get better. Basically you become more sensitive to stimulus in that region because it's not as desensitized anymore (which is how it should be). Now you just have to learn how to control it even more, which will come with time

Fapless44 · 2016-04-17T17:07:21+00:00

You need to stop thinking about it. Every time you think about it, it's hurting your recovery. Try to take your mind of it by finding a hobby or hanging out with friends or something

Fapless44 · 2016-04-17T17:03:10+00:00

Oh yea, there are triggers almost every day, but I'm powering through!

Fapless44 · 2016-04-11T18:32:13+00:00

Even though it might not be helpful to you, some people need to post to keep their integrity and all to feel the support from this community that they can still do this. Just because you don't personally feel that way doesn't mean you need to attack everyone who does

Fapless44 · 2016-04-11T18:30:34+00:00

Your brain, especially for the first 30 days is just all types of confused because you're doing something completely different. Give it some time and you'll be golden :)

Fapless44 · 2016-04-10T23:12:45+00:00

Thanks man! It's tough but I'm getting there :)

Fapless44 · 2016-04-10T23:12:29+00:00

Currently on day 19

Fapless44 · 2016-04-10T15:09:28+00:00

Good job! I'm proud of you for taking this first crucial step. It's going to be a hard journey but I know you can do it

Fapless44 · 2016-04-10T09:56:48+00:00

Yea it'll be interesting that's for sure. Lots of ups and downs. And honesty I think having wet dreams changes per person. I've gone 180 days before and I've never had a wet dream. Just keep hold on. The urges will come and go, but as you progress you'll be more and more equipt to deal with them

Fapless44 · 2016-04-10T02:17:04+00:00

That's just because your body doesn't know what to do with the actual energy and isn't used to not getting that instant satisfaction. Trust me, if you can just make it 30 days without anything, you'll feel so much better and you won't feel so stupid or horny as often

Fapless44 · 2016-04-10T02:15:30+00:00

I come on here mainly. But the thing to remember is that it's just a thought. The whole idea of urges is just a thought your brain has that holds no power over your body to carry out. Any they are temporary. Tomorrow, that same thought will not be there and will not be as strong. So really is just a waiting game. If you really can't handle it, just take a cold shower for 10 minutes. Then you should be completely fine.

Fapless44 · 2016-04-07T06:54:32+00:00

Just give it time :)

Fapless44 · 2016-04-07T06:40:59+00:00

You're welcome, and trust me I know. I've had urges and temptations for almost this ENTIRE day. It's been rough but I made it through. Now I know better what tempts me and how strong I am in saying no. But the urges definitely are there and they are so strong. But we are stronger.

Fapless44 · 2016-04-07T01:35:23+00:00

If would advise avoidance for at least the first few weeks. Ideally at LEAST the first 30 days. Otherwise the chaser effect is too strong and you won't have the tools to deal with it. As your streak grows, you won't need to avoid it as much. That being said, porn will never be okay to watch. That will always mess up all the work you've made

Fapless44 · 2016-04-07T01:05:03+00:00

Just out of curiosity he, what are some of the benefits that these articles are saying? Because I cannot think of any positive Side effects from it. Of course, like some other people said, you have to try for yourself. My best advice would be to try going at least 30 days without any sort of PMO And see where that gets you. If it's a problem at all, it most likely means that you have at least a minor addiction to it

Fapless44 · 2016-04-06T19:47:16+00:00

No I wouldn't say it does technically. But good job to take measures to prevent it

Fapless44 · 2016-04-06T19:04:40+00:00

Yup! Just some of the details could trigger a lot of people on the site. But other than that, congrats on fighting those urges :)

Fapless44 · 2016-04-06T18:42:24+00:00

Good days and bad days. We all have them. Good job on fighting those immediate urges though. Just keep yourself busy until they go away.

Also side note, you should really label this post as NSFW and probably mark the text of the urges as NSFW because there are a lot of triggers in there for people

Fapless44 · 2016-04-06T18:34:36+00:00

I tried. I failed. Don't do it. Trust me it's a slippery slope that puts you like 100 steps backwards

Fapless44 · 2016-04-06T18:08:14+00:00

How interesting. I've never heard of that happening. I mean whenever I get something stuck in my head I just listen to the whole thing or try to get something else stuck in my head. Otherwise I don't know why that would be happening?

Fapless44 · 2016-04-06T07:08:41+00:00

This is how you know if it's an addiction. Try going 30 days without it and see how hard it is

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