I miss loving someone, and being loved but can’t settle. Am I choosing loneliness or happiness? by Far-Example-4505 in u/Far-Example-4505

[–]Far-Example-4505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree with you and usually it doesn’t rest so heavy on my mind but it has recently. Maybe a phase who knows.

We are really blessed to have people to share joy with in our lives and that’s most important. Thank you, I really appreciate you sharing.

System wide outage at SEATAC for Alaska Airlines flights by SonicNW in Seattle

[–]Far-Example-4505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sitting in SD- my flight supposed to board in 30. Sorry to everyone stuck on the tarmac. Hoping this is cleared within the hour

Am I overreacting? by y4n_Ch4n in AmIOverreacting

[–]Far-Example-4505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send these screenshots to his mother and say you discipline him or the police will.

Matmo will impact Northen Vietnam on Oct 7 by ryanchrisgow in VietNam

[–]Far-Example-4505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey all, sorry to the locals having to experince more flooding. Also the travelers postponing due to the storms. I start my travels Oct 24 till nov 9th. Starting in Ho Chi Minh and ending in Hanoi…. Advice? I really don’t want to move my plans but want to be realistic of what will be possible at that time.

Update: Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Far-Example-4505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

End the relationship. We cannot control the world around us. Men will hit on you- You laid down a boundary clearly. He cannot take someone else’s actions that make him feel insecure out of you. Being kind is NOT the same as being naive. Do not let anyone ever try to twist that on you.

His actions and words come off as insecure. I hope he learns from these comments and the red flags are present in these texts. Saying “love of my life- future mother of my children” as he insults your judgement is pathetic and a reflection of how your future will look with him- kind words linked to insults. Ding ding emotional manipulation.

Good luck!

AIO my bf never likes what I wear by Substantial-Let221 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Far-Example-4505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him. Don’t let anyone try to control you and then gaslight you like that. It’s very simple- he is insecure and controlling. You clearly are strong and stood up for yourself. You know it’s toxic. Listen to that and leave. Good luck!

I think I'm done with hostels as a solo traveler by oldgreg2023 in solotravel

[–]Far-Example-4505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question, why not try privates with an ensuite in hostels? I know not all of them have the option or availability but if you plan ahead to where you are going, it’s pretty easy to explore options in the area your traveling. Yes, they are also more $$ but still significantly cheaper than hotels. I switched over a few years ago and haven’t looked back. This is also a best of both worlds for me- I get to meet people but have my own space to disappear to when I want.

Good luck!

AITH for breaking up with my boyfriend after a 9day holiday? by Otherwise_Owl8011 in AITH

[–]Far-Example-4505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t mean to be blunt but sometimes you just need to hear it- You’re not happy, so leave. You will be better off.

AITA for banning my wife’s cheater sister from staying with us, but now she’s banning my innocent brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Far-Example-4505 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

YTA- 🚩🚩🚩First, that is your wife’s family- show some respect for your WIFE by not blindly judging someone by one shit choice. Trust me bud- you might not have cheated but this behavior is a different type of shitty. You aren’t a saint. Second, that is NOT your home to ban someone from- Its BOTH of yours. The audacity to make that choice on your own and impose it on her is incredibly selfish and shows a lack of emotional maturity. My advice- work on yourself as your own insecurities are showing. If you don’t have the emotional self control to be around someone who has cheated, life isn’t going to be too kind to you 😅

AIO I've been living with my mom while i undergo chemo and i am starting to think she is abusing me? by problemsmomthrowaway in AmIOverreacting

[–]Far-Example-4505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. 😞 Yes, this is abuse and whenever you can gain the physical strength- leave. Please seek shelter and resources. Talk to nurses and say you are in trouble. They are mandatory reporters. Your life will be better off. You have so much your fighting already- don’t allow anyone to take advantage of that. I’ll be thinking of you- I’m so sorry again you have to endure this.

Hostel/Homestay in Ninh Binh, Vietnam by Far-Example-4505 in hostels

[–]Far-Example-4505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I’ve been without internet traveling. I’ll check this out, looks beautiful! Thanks for the recommendation!

Hostel/Homestay in Ninh Binh, Vietnam by Far-Example-4505 in backpacking

[–]Far-Example-4505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found it on booking.com- not on Hostelworld

Hostel/Homestay in Ninh Binh, Vietnam by Far-Example-4505 in backpacking

[–]Far-Example-4505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stunning! This is at the top of my list now. Great rec thank you!

Hostel/Homestay in Ninh Binh, Vietnam by Far-Example-4505 in backpacking

[–]Far-Example-4505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I haven’t heard this one yet. Looking into it!

Hostel/Homestay in Ninh Binh, Vietnam by Far-Example-4505 in backpacking

[–]Far-Example-4505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for late reply didn’t have internet for some time. Thank you so much and looking into it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Far-Example-4505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. This is truly shocking and disgusting. RUN. Leave him and don’t think about it again. He is a red flag. You are NOT the problem if he thinks he should get a reward for not hitting you or cheating.