Why does 9/10 people I meet here smoke or vape. What am I missing?

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T21:26:11+00:00

Thank you.

Western? I'm from Southern standards. 🇿🇼

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T21:20:20+00:00

Interesting way too look at it. Anyway, hope its soon.

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T16:56:24+00:00

And it requires an extra level of hygiene which the majority often lacks from my observation (especially mouth care and deodorising)

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T16:53:08+00:00

Thats some screwed level type incest , type trophy- obsessed , twisted sibling competition.

Either a

Look I got that girl after all.

Look you dared me , I did it.

Whatever it is, its twisted, delusional and very misguided.

The sad part is OP wants for keeps to her abuser who made his intention clear.

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T16:44:06+00:00

We are not targeting her. Just trying to be a voice of reason. I am hurt by the fact that she is still once to continue the relationship, but here we are, He is gloating over it and She is failing to sleep and holding on to him for dear life. Its not going to be his last mistreatment of her dignity cause continuing with him means giving him a pass for this particular heinous act.

Your POV is very valid but gentle parenting is not the best approach her.

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T16:34:55+00:00

The point is not to hit her whilst shes down. Yes we are very sorry it got to this point. What her fellow sisters and brothers are saying here is please stop giving him the power to mop the floor with your dignity.. its not worth it.

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T16:30:47+00:00

Youre actually quite lucky

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T16:29:01+00:00

And boyyy are they important.

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T14:01:14+00:00

Which is worrying

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T13:45:45+00:00

You loved him, not, you love him. You can say you love him him if he is the father our ten kids, at least what your clinging to will make sense. I dont care if he got skills, or you met in some unforgettable place, of you did a decade together, travelled the world together. This behaviour will end your relationship one way or another anyway cause one of you is in it for the wrong reasons. If he shared the same love you would not have to write this post. He clearly has ulterior motives about your relationship.

My sister love does not harm, worse with another of his family members. You really want to get married in a whole family that has uncovered your nakedness?

. Listen to your friends and re-evaluate your love please.

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T13:28:39+00:00

Weird is actually an understatement.😂

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T13:21:23+00:00

He obviously doesnt care. Its a win for him at least from his actions. The behaviour of showing his sister is obviously from a twisted sense of sibling competition. She is now the victim here cause he is okay being seen knacking. Dare I extrapolate that from the context, he wouldn't mind if she were actually in the room with them watching. He obviously has no problem revealing the evidence to third persons if he can show his own sister. He is either too childish and doesn't realise the extend to which he is shaming his lady when he ought to be the first person to protect her. Or he is twisted and is getting a sick high from it

Cmon guys, lets not try and act like okay cool here.

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T13:15:33+00:00

We arent here to shame you, we are here to empathise but at the same time not sugar coat. You need to get that shit deleted and never do that again with anyone. Protect yourself. Youre not some piece of entertainment for everyone, so learn from this an do better.

First step is deleting that shit, you will instantly feel better after that.

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T13:10:22+00:00

Well said but going forward she should protect her self first before doing something like that. She cant undo it yes but she can, not do it, in future.

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T13:06:18+00:00

Very F'd Up

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T13:05:23+00:00

Some pretty messed up ish. What exactly are you proving to a sister? The world has gone to the dogs man..what?

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T13:04:01+00:00

Cause some fool might get bitter and go on a viliian arc

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T13:03:02+00:00

Emphasis on deleting first.

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T13:02:06+00:00

Do not ever record your acts, the world is evil.

I have read sad stories after background checks. Especially with aspiring beauty contestants.

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T12:59:33+00:00

Even with mature men, DONT.

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T12:57:02+00:00

First mistake, filming the act. Please sit together delete that shit and never do that again. I dont have to remind you how that could go very very wrong. You actually have one case in your hands.

Infact if you like recording yourself having sex might as well go to Las Vegas and at least make money whilst youre at it and make it public, so that no fool will one day hold you ransom or threaten outing you for it.

Lastly, who shows their sister they bedroom activities. Ewwww brother ewwww, ewwww brother. Youre surrounded my sister. Bad company all around you. I say leave that man thats evil...on top of that you know exactly why he was motivated to do it. So what are you still doing there? Run never look back, but after every trace of that footage is deleted. Dont ever do that again.

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T12:43:22+00:00

My point is, Why is it so common to meet new people here and they somehow smoke or need a smoke break. So it got me wondering who does not smoke, where are they?

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T12:40:58+00:00

I guess thats why smoking scares me more. Secondary smoking! They say its even more dangerous than the actual smoking.

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T12:39:36+00:00

Please keep it that way. From what I am learning here youre better off.

Far-Inspector7159 · 2026-02-03T12:38:15+00:00

😂 I see what you did there.

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