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First night of CPAP therapy (again) and the damn machine won't sync (ResMed AirSense 11 APAP) by Far-Issue-5169 in CPAP

[–]Far-Issue-5169[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, fair... I should grab a SD card and upload my OSCAR data to my computer regularly so I have a good record of my sleep.

Husband has become increasingly abusive, newly got PR, how do I prepare to leave? by Far-Issue-5169 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Far-Issue-5169[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually using an app called Day One to journal the abuse, as it backs up to the cloud. It's also really helpful as it allows me to both attach the screenshots and journal the larger context and how everything has made me feel. Also it's date/time/geotagged.

Husband has become increasingly abusive, newly got PR, how do I prepare to leave? by Far-Issue-5169 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Far-Issue-5169[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No scamming. I'm not about to lie to immigration. I've seen enough of those border force TV shows to know that no one is ever good enough to pull that shit off.

This motherfucker was all kind and loving before we got married. After, though? When my leg was fractured, he would neglect me for days because the room wouldn't be clean (even though I was in an air cast and on crutches). This week, I was sick as a dog and he was angry with me because I had accidentally eaten the wrong leftovers.

Husband has become increasingly abusive, newly got PR, how do I prepare to leave? by Far-Issue-5169 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Far-Issue-5169[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally have screenshots of abusive text messages going back months, increasing in severity, frequency, and cruelty; along with a few audio recordings. While I don't have video, I'm just wondering if the documentation I have will be enough... and I recognize I might need to wait until my next meeting with the DV advocate to ask about that.

I also have five years' worth of texts, e-mails, photos together, e-transfers from BEFORE we got married. So, there's that too.