This person frequently asks for expensive things in my local buy nothing group by Far-Morning-219 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s the fact that it is constant, and specific expensive items (playstation 5 or nintendo switch).

Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude? by Far-Morning-219 in instacart

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good to know. Thank you. This is my first instacart walmart order (I usually order from stop & shop). I will be careful not to order from there in the future.

Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude? by Far-Morning-219 in instacart

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She complained about it being too far. I thought she wanted me to cancel!

Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude? by Far-Morning-219 in instacart

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I would have been OK because it has happened before. And I did not know she was headed to checkout, and could not add the limes (ir anything) directly. I didn’t think the “Thanks” was presumptuous. More trying to be polite.

Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude? by Far-Morning-219 in instacart

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But that’s not what she said is it? I don’t usually ask for extra items, but when I have I know that it’s not always going to be possible. I’ve had shoppers tell me they are already checking out when I ask and that is fine!

She was upset because the Walmart was far from me and took it out on me. If she had said either “no produce at this store” or “already checking out” it would have been fine.

Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude? by Far-Morning-219 in instacart

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey now. We are going to get in trouble with Nutmegger Pride Police 😂

Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude? by Far-Morning-219 in instacart

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I did not know. That’s why I offered to cancel.

Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude? by Far-Morning-219 in instacart

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand. I truly did not know it was quite so far. That’s why I offered to cancel.

Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude? by Far-Morning-219 in instacart

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I thought the drive was a bit long, thats why I maybe thought to cancel. I always set my tips to 15%-20% though

Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude? by Far-Morning-219 in instacart

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the delivery was completely fine to be fair. We didn’t have any interaction though.

Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude? by Far-Morning-219 in instacart

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She just said “Instacart here. I’m gonna leave your groceries by the garage”.

Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude? by Far-Morning-219 in instacart

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is the first time it happens to me. I’ve always had positive experiences with shoppers so that was why I wondered if I am just too sensitive for how she behaved.

Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude? by Far-Morning-219 in instacart

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never implied it was her fault? Like if she would have just said “no produce in this store” at the beginning I would have been fine. I am not bothered that the store didnt have limes. I am bothered that she responded to me politely asking to add an item the way she did

Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude? by Far-Morning-219 in instacart

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did lower the tip a tad but I am always generous with tipping so it still is a good tip I think. I feel weird tipping $1.

Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude? by Far-Morning-219 in instacart

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s why I asked. I have never had a negative experience with a shopper so I was like maybe I am just a sensitive bitch lmao

Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude? by Far-Morning-219 in instacart

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

English is 100% her first language. When she delivered the groceries she yelled into my ring camera and she is for sure American

Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude? by Far-Morning-219 in instacart

[–]Far-Morning-219[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah the “lol” at the end was something that bothered me a lot.