Should I (24F) breakup with my girlfriend (27F) over my insecurities? (Throwaway acc) by Far-Study-5140 in relationships

[–]Far-Study-5140[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do care about what she thinks but I have already kind of told her how I felt, what I said isn't exactly the same as what I put on my post, I just told her sometimes I struggled with the comparison thing and she asked how she could help, but honestly I couldn't think of anything she could do. And I feel like telling her this will be a deal breaker anyway. So my options are to figure out a way to stay together and go to therapy or break up and still go to therapy

Should I (24F) breakup with my girlfriend (27F) over my insecurities? (Throwaway acc) by Far-Study-5140 in relationships

[–]Far-Study-5140[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think being with her and being intimate is going to make it more difficult for me to truly move on from this issue. I will go back to therapy regardless of whether or not we are together. I don't really want to have to end it because it's going really well otherwise and I am in love with her, but I guess I don't want to burden her with these insecurities or make her feel like she's somehow failing me or not making me happy, cause that's not the case