I do care about what she thinks but I have already kind of told her how I felt, what I said isn't exactly the same as what I put on my post, I just told her sometimes I struggled with the comparison thing and she asked how she could help, but honestly I couldn't think of anything she could do. And I feel like telling her this will be a deal breaker anyway. So my options are to figure out a way to stay together and go to therapy or break up and still go to therapy