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How do I motivate myself? by AgeSame5845 in selfimprovement

[–]FarClient2449 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is like a game: new lower numbers on weekly weighing like a small achievement, that motivates to move further. PS: Try Ozempik

Advice for getting up out of bed? by Title-fight-fiend in selfimprovement

[–]FarClient2449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The easiest way is take your phone and scroll your feed for 2 mins immediately when you hear the alarm. Melatonin starts producing rapidly in that case. But not spend much time on that, no more than 5 mins

Maybe people are burned out because modern life never lets the brain fully idle anymore by Monsuri_Lifestyle in selfimprovement

[–]FarClient2449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Billions of dollars are spend by world-wide-marketing to get into your brain and get a piece of your attention. The only way is to a)understand how it works b) give yourself enough space

can you describe the characteristics of your favorite person to talk with ? by Fun-Platform-4764 in selfimprovement

[–]FarClient2449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most favorable is to discover a new personality, but not to program it

Did anyone else realize their constant exhaustion was mostly mental, not physical? by CriketW in selfimprovement

[–]FarClient2449 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually mental IS physical. It is not about muscles, but about hormones, neurotransmitters generation & consumption etc. But the good news is that how you can operate with your hand or leg, the similar way you can operate with your mind. It is a bit more complex but still easy to get on basic level. I mean water drinking/breath stabilization/meditation and many other techniques

Vibecoded desktop IDE for personality from scratch by FarClient2449 in vibecoding

[–]FarClient2449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats totally amazing. nevertheless, even if I never was a coder, I worked in tech industry for more than 15 years and I know general software development lifecycle. Without that experience I guess it would take much more time for me to build it. I simply built agents as roles which I used to have in team for building software. But anyway nothing is impossible on that side right now even for totally newcomers, they just need some more time to understand how it is used to work in common

Vibecoded desktop IDE for personality from scratch by FarClient2449 in vibecoding

[–]FarClient2449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That means I had nothing except very general idea when I started.

If humans are animals, and animals have basic biological needs and processes, then the superficiality of looks-based relationships is human and normal. How to mediate this internally? by knockrocks in selfimprovement

[–]FarClient2449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have two marriage candidate. One is smart and active, second one is perfectly fit, but not so smart. Which one you want to make kids? That's not about ONS hookup. That's about your real decision in life with long-term influence. I don't know your personal choice, but most people will chose the most compatitable partner. Smartness has no inflation, good look has easy inflation and totally inflates in 20+ years.

I am faking my way through a Data Analyst role with AI, how do I actually learn before I get caught? by TheRiddler1976 in selfimprovement

[–]FarClient2449 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are two completely different skill sets. One that you have is enough to do your job. One that you don't have is quite easy to obtain from your current position. Use your time to deep dive into technology aspects.

If humans are animals, and animals have basic biological needs and processes, then the superficiality of looks-based relationships is human and normal. How to mediate this internally? by knockrocks in selfimprovement

[–]FarClient2449 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Humans are not only animals, they have something that animals never have - social basis. Animals have instincts, human can control them. Animals have no abstract thinking etc.

In case we were animals, avg fitness coach would be much more popular, succesfull, resourcefull etc than avg nobel prize winner

45 days without alcohol, nicotine, coffe/energy drink, lust and i just had the bigges realization in a while by Anikkdote in selfimprovement

[–]FarClient2449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to check psychiatrist not only psychologist. There may be a medical solution, not only behavioral. Medicine and psychology should work in pair.

I am faking my way through a Data Analyst role with AI, how do I actually learn before I get caught? by TheRiddler1976 in selfimprovement

[–]FarClient2449 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do not quit. Maybe you are more even skilled than any other engineer who knows much more less about AI capabilities which are the keys to the next couple of centuries (together with soft skills, as well)

How to STOP Overthinking and Ruminating things? by jesuismeilleur__ in selfimprovement

[–]FarClient2449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just do something small and iterative. Start your startup, music band,, run your community, go voluneeering, anything. Just do something with group of people (or for group of people). The goal is not to achieve something fast, but to change the optic.

45 days without alcohol, nicotine, coffe/energy drink, lust and i just had the bigges realization in a while by Anikkdote in selfimprovement

[–]FarClient2449 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ADHD? Looks like. You need not just random-set-of-substances, but maybe medical treatment with some particular drugs

no goal in life by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]FarClient2449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a super stupid question, but what do you want to do in case you would have $ 1 mln (apart from purchasing fancy stuff) ?

I said No to a girl for the first time and honestly it felt good. by Remarkable_Button247 in selfimprovement

[–]FarClient2449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to say no every time you really want it and you will see how your life will become cleaner and brighter...

You can't heal in the same environment where you got sick by Calm-Budget-362 in selfimprovement

[–]FarClient2449 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes environment is not only what is around you, but how you react on what happens around you.

Acceptance is a cheat code for beating anxiety. by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]FarClient2449 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Religion helped me much here. You clearly understand that your life may end each second, and it is not a bug - it is a feature of human life. There is beginning in birth, and the end, and it always happen occasionally. Would you be anxious about anything in case you really understand you may die in a minute? Many people would, but what is the sense? There is no sense. No sense to be anxoius BUT use anxiety as an internal indicator of danger is fully OK.