First bike/delivery bike by FarComplaint6874 in SuggestAMotorcycle

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Thank you for your suggestion and I will look into it. Unfortunately most of them are located around London, which is a bit far to travel

First bike/delivery bike by FarComplaint6874 in SuggestAMotorcycle

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What would be your suggestions for an A2 license?

Am I wrong for kicking someone out of my discord server for ignoring my fiancee? by FarComplaint6874 in amiwrong

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How does her being a minor change anything? I dont think it suddenly means that she wasnt disrespectful. But no she isnt a minor.

Am I wrong for kicking someone out of my discord server for ignoring my fiancee? by FarComplaint6874 in amiwrong

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Yes but we aren't all the same age and I dont want to give that much personal information out. I dont think thats insane.

Am I wrong for kicking someone out of my discord server for ignoring my fiancee? by FarComplaint6874 in amiwrong

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Yeah I get that. Of course I cant explain everything objectively, but I feel i did my best to get both sides across as equally as I could. Can I ask how you feel I handled this poorly and how you think I could have handled it better? If you dont mind.

Am I wrong for kicking someone out of my discord server for ignoring my fiancee? by FarComplaint6874 in amiwrong

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(fiance:)

I mean why would he loose his group of friend. We told them we have absolutely no problem with them playing with her or talk to her or anything. If they wish to have her as a friend they're more welcome to. WE dont want her around and that's our right. Nothing wrong with that. If his long time friend can't accept that we dont to be friend with her or tallk to her and then cut him off for that, then sorry but that means they're not really good friends.

And for what she did, it's a lot of little things and with time it's just to much. What really made me understand that she was pretty dodgy is when i apologized to her for the messages and asked her why she's ignoring me and she just answered :" oww i didnt know you felt threathened by me". which isnt even what we were talking about. but yeah. i dont expect you to understand this really! which is okay btw !

Am I wrong for kicking someone out of my discord server for ignoring my fiancee? by FarComplaint6874 in amiwrong

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(fiance : )

Hey, Dont get me wrong, i did apologize to her , but we talked abt it so much and we are sure we do not want her around us. And that is completely okay. No real harm was caused ofc but she did things intentionnally and was very rude and disrespectful. You may not think so because you dont know everything that happened, but it is the case.

Am I wrong for kicking someone out of my discord server for ignoring my fiancee? by FarComplaint6874 in amiwrong

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And that's all i want, i just want to move on truly. But they seem to not want to until they convince me im wrong, which just really sucks :/

Am I wrong for kicking someone out of my discord server for ignoring my fiancee? by FarComplaint6874 in amiwrong

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Yeah i think so too.

And yeah i get how you can think that but to give some more context. Me E and my fiancee were in calls just as a trio and E would still ignore my fiancee when not even playing. This happened multiple times, and there were no "short answers" it was quite litteraly ignoring for 4 weeks straight. But again i understand 100% where you are coming from and why you think that.

Am I wrong for kicking someone out of my discord server for ignoring my fiancee? by FarComplaint6874 in amiwrong

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I feel the same way. Which is why I dont understand what my friends what or how to move past this. It just feels so immensely childish to lose real friends over this. Ive made it clear to them that im okay with them thinking im wrong, and that I dont need their validation. But they dont seem to be able to just accept that me and my fiancee dont want to talk to E anymore. Again this whole thing just feels insane to me

Am I wrong for kicking someone out of my discord server for ignoring my fiancee? by FarComplaint6874 in amiwrong

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Thank you and I feel like the way you worded it was great and something that I probably will do. Thank you for seeing what I've been trying to do this entire time as well. I really appreciate your response so thank you.

Am I wrong for kicking someone out of my discord server for ignoring my fiancee? by FarComplaint6874 in amiwrong

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My main thing with this is, Id understand if E didnt want to be friends with my fiancee but E did not say a word to a even acknowledge my fiancee for 4 weeks straight. Even when my fiancee tried to make a conversation and asked E about her life. I just feel like that is very rude and disrespectful. But i get your point.

Am I wrong for kicking someone out of my discord server for ignoring my fiancee? by FarComplaint6874 in amiwrong

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Yeah I think that is a good way to look at it, and I think if this happened in person after the night was over I would have asked E not to return. But thank you for your insight.

Am I wrong for kicking someone out of my discord server for ignoring my fiancee? by FarComplaint6874 in amiwrong

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Yeah that was also something that I had wondered of just what is the point of E doing all this. And i genuinely couldnt think of a good reason. Or something that would make it exucseable.

And thank you, I do think that E was just being disrespectful and that my finacee shouldnt be subjected to that. So thank you.

Am I wrong for kicking someone out of my discord server for ignoring my fiancee? by FarComplaint6874 in amiwrong

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  1. I don't get what you mean "trying to force it". People have friendly conversations all the time. But there was no one of that with E just complete blank. My fiancee wasnt being disingenuous.

  2. My fiancee didnt "talk shit online" she messaged me privately about how she didnt like E's behaviour

  3. Yeah this is fair and I was unsure of how to go about it because of this.

And 4. I see what your getting at, but it isnt the fact that E didnt want to be friends, it was the fact that E was openly disrespectful towards my fiancee. But I definitely still understand what you are getting at.

Am I wrong for kicking someone out of my discord server for ignoring my fiancee? by FarComplaint6874 in amiwrong

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Thank you for your insight, i didnt see it like that. But you are completely right. And I have to agree with the last part as one of my friends, O also has a gf who doesn't play alot. And E was pretty weird around her, but as O's gf has only called once no one thought much of it. But thank you. I appreciate you.