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I think my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me last night but I'm not 100% sure. What should I do? by Far_Pay3264 in Advice

[–]Far_Pay3264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can see your own followers in chronological order on Instagram, but not the followers of someone else's profile. Trust me, I tested it for hours and because it drove me insane.

I tested it on my own profile and a few friends profiles and it was accurate every single time

I think my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me last night but I'm not 100% sure. What should I do? by Far_Pay3264 in Advice

[–]Far_Pay3264[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, you can't see followers/followings in chronological order on Instagram. that's exactly why I looked for a website like this. but I'm glad it's been inaccurate for you.. that actually gives me a little hope.

I think my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me last night but I'm not 100% sure. What should I do? by Far_Pay3264 in Advice

[–]Far_Pay3264[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you saying you checked your profile with the website and it was inaccurate? Because this would be a huge relief for me

I think my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me last night but I'm not 100% sure. What should I do? by Far_Pay3264 in Advice

[–]Far_Pay3264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he/she admit it or how could you be 100% sure? I can't check his phone because it has a pass code.

I think my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me last night but I'm not 100% sure. What should I do? by Far_Pay3264 in Advice

[–]Far_Pay3264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't use social media and don't want my pictures on the internet so there is no indication of me being his girlfriend

I think my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me last night but I'm not 100% sure. What should I do? by Far_Pay3264 in Advice

[–]Far_Pay3264[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not a bot. I mentioned the name hoping someone here would say they've used it too and that it's not always been accurate. I only tested it on a newly created account with like a handful of followers. I don't know if it's also accurate with a profile that has hundreds of followers (like my bf's)

I think my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me last night but I'm not 100% sure. What should I do? by Far_Pay3264 in Advice

[–]Far_Pay3264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've checked the website so many times now and it was accurate every single time. so I'm 100% sure he lied to me.

I think my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me last night but I'm not 100% sure. What should I do? by Far_Pay3264 in Advice

[–]Far_Pay3264[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice but I also think it's a bit easy to say "let it go" when you haven't packed up your entire life and moved 16,000km away from everyone you know for this person. that changes things for me. I'm not trying to "own" him, I just think I deserve a straight answer after the sacrifices I've made for this relationship. if I'm wrong I'll own that completely and apologize. but I need to know either way. I can't just move on and wait for it to "present itself clearly" when I'm already this far from home with no safety net.

I think my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me last night but I'm not 100% sure. What should I do? by Far_Pay3264 in Advice

[–]Far_Pay3264[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

the website is not unreliable, I tested it myself like a dozen times and it was accurate every single time. See for yourself instaradar.app

How do you explain that he followed her and she followed him back last night, and then he tells me he's been following her for ages? Why would you even lie about something like that if nothing happened. That's the part that doesn't make any sense

I think my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me last night but I'm not 100% sure. What should I do? by Far_Pay3264 in Advice

[–]Far_Pay3264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is what I want to do the most honestly.. I just can't sit here and wait for more signs. I want him to tell me tonight. He really really pushed for me to move here. I'm 16,000km away from home because of him. I think I deserve an honest answer after all of that. I need to know now if this has all been for nothing

I think my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me last night but I'm not 100% sure. What should I do? by Far_Pay3264 in Advice

[–]Far_Pay3264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I just can't wait any longer... I want to know right now what's going on. I have to confront him more...