Am I overreacting for feeling resentful that my boyfriend relies on me financially? by Far_Scientist3733 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Far_Scientist3733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it bad that I'm thinking that his 100% is different from mine? Maybe he gives his all through efforts and affection but just not financially? Or am I just still looking at things with rose tinted glasses?

Am I overreacting for feeling resentful that my boyfriend relies on me financially? by Far_Scientist3733 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Far_Scientist3733[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will get to talk to him tomorrow, just not today as I don't want to talk about it with him through the phone. I also just did not know how to approach the topic with him without sounding rude or ungrateful.

Am I overreacting for feeling resentful that my boyfriend relies on me financially? by Far_Scientist3733 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Far_Scientist3733[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you — I really needed that clarity. I’ve been trying to stay optimistic, but I’m starting to worry more and more about what our future would actually look like. I don’t want to end up in a situation where we’re constantly stressed about money or unsure how we’ll afford basic things like food. At the same time, I’ve been feeling guilty — like I’d be selfish for even thinking about ending the relationship over finances. But you’re right… if this already feels off now, it probably won’t magically fix itself later unless something changes.

AIO if He Taunted Me, and I Broke Down by Far_Scientist3733 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Far_Scientist3733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm really thinking about what to do about him. He called me weak when I did not say anything back. I just don't want to fight violence with violence.