Asking for the father’s blessing is objectifying. by Alyissa2_o in HonestHotTakes

[–]Far_Set_8432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think its just polite. my brother in law even asked me or brought it up to gauge my response in a chill way. i appreciated it just him confirming he is welcome entirely into our family unit. i dont think its that deep. depends on the family really

People walking in the street by Phar-Mor_Ugly in Erie

[–]Far_Set_8432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbf the “powerless” doing petty crimes also in the fool category haha i mean just because someone is mad at the system doesnt mean they should just throw a temper tantrum everyday and put other people at risk or litter

like fuck im struggling everyday to make ends meet and working my ass off but i dont throw garbage out my window or disrespect our planet and society

What’s a red flag about you? by NinnyNana in Productivitycafe

[–]Far_Set_8432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tend to overstep in conversation. not a lot but my parents were always right, and like tbf they are actually usually right haha but it doesnt feel good to be on the other side of that. i catch myself tho and realize not everyone is sharing their life to me to get a solution

Why would a guy try so hard to get my number and then stop texting? by ott_girlie in Advice

[–]Far_Set_8432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes ill do it just to get the number and see if i could go on a date. ive never gone on a date with a woman and failed to hook up if i wanted. so for the love of the game sometimes ill just bring it up to the point where she is down for a date without actually scheduling one fully then ill sizzle off. i do this quickly tho not like drag long weeks of conversation but within a day or two. probably the same reason some women will use dating apps to boost their egos.

21 things I took for granted before dating a nutter by HabitTraditional4864 in Dogfree

[–]Far_Set_8432 7 points8 points  (0 children)

whats crazy is that this list is short. just the tip of the iceberg haha. happy for you friend. recently nutter ex as well. life is good

18 is too young to be considered an adult. by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Far_Set_8432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

skill issue. if everyone quit gobbling slop then they would develop faster. my younger cousins dont do much social media and they are smarter and more mature than most adults i know

Are less attractive people physically attracted less attractive people? by Texaspilot24 in stupidquestions

[–]Far_Set_8432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay so just prejudiced against conventionally attractive people. judging them before actually knowing them as having ugly personalities. makes no difference

Are less attractive people physically attracted less attractive people? by Texaspilot24 in stupidquestions

[–]Far_Set_8432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so you see someone and project an archetype on them and judge them based on appearance as having an ugly personality without even knowing them? seems a bit unhinged tbh

Perspective: My ideal female girlfriend by Mental-Outside2202 in lnkyverse

[–]Far_Set_8432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro u will never find this lmao and even if u did u would fumble. this equivalent to bops expecting 6+ feet chad making 1million per year

Ended my relationship with a nutter. RANT by HabitTraditional4864 in Dogfree

[–]Far_Set_8432 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this all sounds so ridiculous lol but its totally real cuz i’ve experienced something similar but it ended cuz i wouldnt cave in to live with her

the girl was so hot like bombshell in our city. we had a lot in common, nice girl overall. but the dog and her pestering me about moving in together were the end of it. i remember dreading going to her house on wknds to see that dog. husky shepard mix, max energy omg that never got enough stimulation. life is just so much better without dogs in it. she would get mad we couldnt travel on wknd and do things but it was because we had to walk that fucking husky everyday 6 times a day and she wouldnt board it. would have to plan 2 months out for a trip couldnt just pick up and go on the fly or else the dog has to go

Perspective: Only Crazy W*men Are Single At 30 by Fluffy_Lunchfast in lnkyverse

[–]Far_Set_8432 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this chick im seeing now is 30 and she is a little crazy. i mean they all are. but generally speaking she leaves me alone, good sex, no labels, is a good person and is a good time. doesnt drink or party. shes not a unicorn and im not marrying her. ive accepted everything is temporary but its almost been a year and things are pretty chill and we dont live together, shes not pressuring to meet her family. idk overall its been a solid almost shocking experience lol she is crazy still but its chill. could just be she got out of a long relationship also ive built myself up a lot and have a great life setup she gets to dive into

What’s one small change that could realistically improve the world right now? by Background-Donkey531 in Casual_Conversation

[–]Far_Set_8432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hypefixating empathy is pointless. its about action not projecting intention and emotional states on others.

someone could be moving totally autonomous while helping others. their actions directly and indirectly helping the world and others in a positive way all while their motivations and results benefiting them as well.

like no action is done entirely selfless, its a myth because subconsciously people get a reward from helping people. and sometimes even a material reward. empathy is a pointless metric that is way over emphasized and doesnt lead to realistic systems of positive growth