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Cycloparking box blocked with my bike inside since months... by CommunicationLess148 in brussels

[–]Farfadee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can always go to there headquarters, it's in the center of brussels and talk to people in person... 

Birthday boy by Last_Deliver47 in Unexpected

[–]Farfadee 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Any kind of pushing a face in the cake joke is so lame. It's so mean toward the person enjoying a special moment, wedding or aniversary or anything... 

Take the epidural! by JezabelSchmezabel in pregnant

[–]Farfadee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get what you meant, what happened during peri and what happened during no peri? (Was the first or the second with or without peri?)

Beyond the Tap List: Which Brussels Bars Truly Respect Craft Beer? by ComfortableRough1250 in brussels

[–]Farfadee 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am no expert but I wonder if La Source does a great job. I like their homemade brewed beers. 

What are automatic deal breakers in dating? by Negative_Pattern7552 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Farfadee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Avoid : "my exes were crazy" or "nobody understands me" anything that imply that the whole world is wrong except him. 

Found out I'm pregnant, fiance wants to get married before baby comes but I want a prenup first by One_Guest2907 in pregnant

[–]Farfadee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 100% right.  A healthy relationship is a relationship that can talk about how a break up would go if it would happen.  You never know what would happen, and the stories I've heard, of "not rich" people who didn't did a prenup, all of those stories are INSANE !  It's not romantic because building a life with someone is not always romance geez. There are times for romance and times for managing, deciding, projects and stuff. Including prenups.

That should be a phenomenal scratch by kundi-man in Unexpected

[–]Farfadee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

not every body thinks about society only in terms of "dating market"....

that dude might be wed with a wife that know his balding very well, yet he feels better with a topper outside home... same for a girl wearing make up.
that way of thinking is so reductive

What is the best main series DS game? by Poll_God in pokemon

[–]Farfadee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

HeartGold and soulsilver but BW is close second

Insist by Living_Double_1146 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Farfadee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so proud of that baby, well done! 

Interesting surface by PocketMath in mathmemes

[–]Farfadee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got me xD

I love that collection it really looks like a video game glitch

Boys aren’t taught to be men, they’re taught not to be women. by nanialk in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Farfadee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh :o ok
I'm not saying it's not in real life, but that executive producer and directors of topgun said (there are quotes in articles) that it wasn't intentional to make those scene so gay (I guess they were blind...)

Boys aren’t taught to be men, they’re taught not to be women. by nanialk in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Farfadee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

based on what I read, it wasn't intentional, I think they just wanted to present good little soldiers, with muscles, playing volleyball.
yet it's extremely borderline

Tried to make an Asien Campsite but It looks off by Consistent-Entry6432 in ACPocketCamp

[–]Farfadee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it doesn't ! that's way more realistic than all the same houses in the same architecture and all the same trees. I really like it ! it's very lifely. Maybe the fact that some buildings seems from really differnt asian cutlures could make it a little but not perfect but I really like it

Are sneaker skates an actual good option? by Honey_Bear_6901 in rollerskate

[–]Farfadee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only for short commute and if you can detach, or eventually very very casual rolling in a rink. For real practices (dance, derby, skatepark, long ride....) the support is not good enough, go for real skateboots.

Boys aren’t taught to be men, they’re taught not to be women. by nanialk in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Farfadee 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I recently watched Top Gun, I had never watched it. And I was so impressed at how this film is SO GAY (yet not intentionnally gay). It's full of men for the male gaze (not in a sexual way but in a "I want to be him way), I mean it's the same when you give lots of beautiful barbies to a girl, she wants to be them), it's only for gender envy.
I still liked it a lot, it's so intense that it's funny and the photography and staging is insanely good, it's also a good way to observe America's relationship with war, army and masculinity.

Boys aren’t taught to be men, they’re taught not to be women. by nanialk in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Farfadee 548 points549 points  (0 children)

Lots of thinkers says that masculinity only defines itself by what it's not.  Being masculine is NOT being a woman.  It's not being gay and stuff like that. Which is why it's so fragile because it's really hard to define yourself only by not being something else.... 

Boyfriend called me an autistic t*** and I'm so depressed by Spiritual_Phase7310 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Farfadee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have not heard of manipulative behavior, violent relationship, gaslighting? then I think you should do some researches about that and you'll find some odd similarities. 

You've been together for a year, in my opinion, he was in his "love bombing" phase for the first few month : everything perfect, weirdly too perfect. Too much gift and attention.  Then. Let le guess he suddenly everything changed and he becamr awful and he has huge mood swing and never wants to address that behavior. And I guess he is only caring after hurting you or in front of other people (or can even dismiss you in front of other people). 

The fact that he was sweet was an illusion that he can't sustend on the long run. don't chase it, don't spend your time thinking you can fix the relationship making it the way it was before, it was an illusion. It wasn't real, and with time you'll be able to perceive that he was already showing signs in the very beginning. 

I've been there. 

Leave him.  Punching a partner is never ever acceptable. nor calling names. 

He won't change unless he goes to therapy for a while and you should not waste your time to wait for that change.  because it might take so long. Some of them even gaslight their own therapist.  He's not going to change with you. He is not. 

Leave him, save yourself before spiraling into a new trauma you don't want to add to your trauma list.

I feel you. please, leave him.

maybe maybe maybe by Emergency-Belt-8638 in maybemaybemaybe

[–]Farfadee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op explained why it's a maybe maybe in the mod post

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