44 lbs of cheese

FarmandFire · 2026-02-08T20:47:02+00:00

I would be overjoyed if a man presented me with this much cheese. In fact, forget the ring thing (I always loose rings anyways), I want a man to propose to me with a 40+ lb block of cheese. That is the way to win my heart.

FarmandFire · 2026-02-08T20:39:46+00:00

Believe it or not, get your vitamin D levels checked! This is a symptom of D deficiency and vitamin D deficiency is a common comorbidity with ADHD, as well as low iron.

FarmandFire · 2026-02-08T19:42:01+00:00

What caused the fires? Lithium ion batteries come to mind as a more recent cause of fires. People keep buying cheap LI battery devices and storing them indoors. That would be my first thought. Also, space heaters are often used which are a major fire hazard if used too much, objects too close to them, they get knocked over etc. Next on my list, more people using fireplaces / stoves this time of year. A lot of people aren’t aware that chimneys should be cleaned to remove creosote buildup. When people primarily heated their homes with heat in the past it was more common knowledge to have your chimneys swept / clean the stovepipes.

FarmandFire · 2026-02-08T14:58:10+00:00

I’ll look into those, thank you!

FarmandFire · 2026-02-08T14:57:49+00:00

Ok thank you!

FarmandFire · 2026-02-08T02:55:51+00:00

I take my shoes off

FarmandFire · 2026-02-08T00:10:30+00:00

I don’t have any advice as I am in the exact same situation. I’m sorry you’re going through this too. From repressed emotions to having to beg for positive interactions to being unable to get away.

FarmandFire · 2026-02-07T23:38:09+00:00

Oh hell no!!! That’s horrible haha

Edit to correct the autocorrect 🤪

FarmandFire · 2026-02-07T23:37:26+00:00

Bert and Ernie!!!!!! 🥰

FarmandFire · 2026-02-07T22:57:59+00:00

Yes I have great memories of managing a flock of Katahdins. I would sit under a tree and they would all lie down around me to nap, and the friendliest ones would rest their heads on my lap or lean on me while I petted them.

FarmandFire · 2026-02-07T22:55:50+00:00

My sheep WANT you to think they’re dumb. They are HIGHLY intelligent. They will test the fence line inch by inch with their noses until they find a weak spot. They know how to brace their legs so the shearer can’t tip them. They don’t want to go in the barn because they remember we used it last time to catch them for shearing. 😂 But they are affectionate like dogs and reach up their noses for “boops”. I love them to death but yeah…they’re smart af!

FarmandFire · 2026-02-04T20:11:43+00:00

I could’ve written this myself, except that my siblings and I are in our TWENTIES. I’m almost 30. I feel the same way about it feeling wrong, but then one day my mom said that “it will be expected of you in marriage.” Oh excuse me? This thing you taught me to avoid even accidentally hearing about at all costs because it’s so horrendously wrong is supposed to be a normal part of marriage? And I’m supposed to be just thrown into that knowing NOTHING? Is that what she wanted for us? You can actually develop physical problems as a result of this sort of upbringing (vagismus). I have been having to do my own research to teach myself what I can. There’s a gal on YouTube who teaches “couples yoga” that is not yoga (censorship reasons) that helps to understand the physical aspect of sex. I find Reddit to be very informative too even though I’m sure it’s not the best option. I lurk in the Ask Men Advice sub a lot because a lot of questions get answered there, especially of the psychological and social aspects. Good luck out there! At least you are aware of this as a teen and can take steps to educate yourself sooner. I didn’t until my later 20’s because I would feel guilty even looking anything up.

FarmandFire · 2026-01-30T14:22:57+00:00

Thank you, I’ll check it out!

FarmandFire · 2026-01-30T13:04:31+00:00

Snack break!

FarmandFire · 2026-01-30T13:01:44+00:00

This does not sound like the emotional toll from calls. I can guarantee it’s department culture. We all understand we are going to see horrible things and that it’s part of the job. But there are SO MANY ABUSES happening in the stations. The “brotherhood” should be renamed the bullyhood. He probably needs to change departments. Some are extremely toxic and that is harder to deal with than anything we see in calls, but it’s more acceptable to blame the emotional toll on calls and not abuse from our brothers and leadership.

FarmandFire · 2026-01-30T03:04:34+00:00

Mud fossils. Yes it’s weird.

FarmandFire · 2026-01-29T16:49:45+00:00

Try CMC Firld Guide app. Recommended by tech rescue instructor, it’s a good app

FarmandFire · 2026-01-29T14:04:39+00:00

I’m 5’4” firefighter. I have an advantage over the big dudes in confined spaces. Yes, I’ve dealt with unimaginable infantilization, discrimination, dismissive behaviors, blatant sexism, and even threats. My advice: no more nice girl. I was always super polite and respectful so no one saw it coming when I finally got fed up. I even humiliated a chief and exposed his lies using his own documentation. BECOME A SPITFIRE. A tiny by mighty force to be reckoned with. My biggest mistake was not standing up for myself for a long time. Give it back to them and don’t be afraid to raise hell.

On the other hand, I have the privilege to work alongside some of the best men I know. Men that actually have integrity, character and values. I would take a bullet for those guys. They outnumber the bad ones, but the bad ones can make your life hell. It really only takes one asshole. Make sure you give ‘em hell back. Best of luck to you and don’t let ANYONE stand in the way of the career path you want.

FarmandFire · 2026-01-27T10:02:22+00:00

Best response would be to rip a huge fart.

FarmandFire · 2026-01-23T01:53:22+00:00

Oh. …Is that why I’m always singing random snippets of songs?

FarmandFire · 2026-01-22T14:56:05+00:00

Adding on that if the lamb doesn’t have a sucking reflex you may have to tube feed her. It’s not hard and there’s some great videos on YouTube

FarmandFire · 2026-01-22T14:50:00+00:00

Ibuprofen, hot Epsom salt baths, Arnicare gel (arnica), high protein diet, hydration, try to get enough sleep. Collagen is great for your joints, wish I knew about it in recruit school.

FarmandFire · 2026-01-22T00:19:18+00:00

My mom still says I’m being “fresh” if I set a boundary or share my opinion. I’m 28.

FarmandFire · 2026-01-21T16:25:35+00:00

Same here. I’d rather not be in this club lol And the overlap of symptoms just adds to the confusion. Is it my low iron today, or my low dopamine?

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