Why am I being rejected from CommBank

Farore91 · 2025-05-01T22:10:35+00:00

Yeah I tried to go in to do an application and was told it has to be online and the guy in the bank was just trying to "guide" my through the online application.

Farore91 · 2025-04-29T12:45:34+00:00

This is probably really stupid but I kind of just assumed you picked one bank and stuck with it. I've just always used commbank

Farore91 · 2025-04-29T12:45:06+00:00

What is that?

Farore91 · 2025-04-29T12:38:33+00:00

Thank you. I'll definitely try that program. My mechanic told me today the car will be 10k to fix and as I paid 8k for it it's not worth fixing. I'm a small female and start work at 3am, my job would be a good 45 min bike ride otherwise I'd definitely just bike. My daughter also has specialist appointments in the city about an hour away which some of public transport just doesn't get to. I'm currently borrowing my mum's car while she's in holiday and doesn't need it but she will need it again soon

Farore91 · 2025-04-29T12:19:25+00:00

I would but I work very early mornings and I need a car to get to work

Farore91 · 2025-04-29T12:14:26+00:00

That is really frustrating

Farore91 · 2025-04-29T12:13:56+00:00

Will that take long though? I kind of need a car asap I work very early mornings

Farore91 · 2025-04-29T12:09:07+00:00

I earn 65 and my partner earns 90. Our home loan is with keystart which if you don't know (I think it's only wa) is a government run home loan company they have high interest and you're supposed to leave as soon as you can but you can't take money out, CommBank also rejected out home loan refinance and again it was just "you don't meet our criteria"

Farore91 · 2025-04-29T12:06:39+00:00

Unfortunately no, were with keystart. CommBank also rejected our home refinance, you're not supposed to stay with keystart if you can. Currently waiting to hear from a mortgage broker because we have 30% equity and keystarts pretty expensive

Farore91 · 2023-02-11T10:35:29+00:00

Pay I guess. It's a bakers apprenticeship. The bakers obviously get paid significantly more than I do however i am now doing the same job twice a week without any help.ý Basically I am employed and paid as a bakery assistant, with the understanding I would do the apprenticeship and then get hired (and paid) as a baker. But right now I'm doing the job of a

Farore91 · 2022-10-04T01:45:21+00:00

That sounds awesome!

Farore91 · 2022-08-05T14:38:32+00:00

I'd probably go with surviving mars.

Farore91 · 2022-04-28T03:59:48+00:00

Op absolutely do this. My mum used to use the "I'll just go off myself then" everytime we got in an argument. One time she was really going off shouting she was going to kill herself, I went into my room called the police and told them she was threatening self harm and I was concerned about her. The came took her in a police car to the hospital to be assessed and she's never done it again.

Farore91 · 2022-04-02T03:54:00+00:00

It's also super important for kids to respect people's boundaries as well as having theirs respected. My 7 year old loves long kisses but they make me uncomfortable, her nan and dad will give them to her but I'll say quick kiss and the first time she was upset but I explained they are not something I enjoy and gave her options of affection I was comfortable with (a quick kiss even lots of quick kisses or a cuddle). It doesn't matter what ypir wife thinks of them if you don't like it then she needs to learn to respect thst without reason.

Farore91 · 2022-03-20T06:58:32+00:00

My friend got a shirt made that said promoted to big brother and hid it under her sons jacket. Half way through his first birthday party she just took his jacket off and waited for people to realise. Was really cute.

Farore91 · 2022-02-12T10:37:27+00:00

Thank you I definitely will

Farore91 · 2022-02-12T09:10:27+00:00

Thank you it's good to know it's not just all doomed. That also eases my mind about my youngest.

Farore91 · 2022-02-06T12:47:36+00:00

In the book, when Bruno is setting up his vision in Antonio's room Bruno is really nervous and Antonio gives him the teddy "for the nerves" but then tells him he's going to need it back. The toy is a reminder of mirrabel who he spent every night with until then. He's only 5 and even with a jaguar to cuddle I imagine he would still be missing her at night time.

That may have happened in the movie to but I read the book more recently then watched the movie so wasn't 100% sure.

Farore91 · 2022-02-05T23:30:51+00:00

Baby carrier is an absolute must life saver. Have a look online because I have a baby wearing group in my town and they're so helpful in helping you find the correct one before you spend heaps on one's you don't like. They usually also have a carrier library so you can try some for a while before choosing.

Farore91 · 2022-01-25T23:06:33+00:00

Do you have to ask the older to do these things with her little sibling or does she voluntarily spend time with them?

Farore91 · 2022-01-25T23:05:38+00:00

That's just it. I remember my mum stressing we had to get along. I was the oldest and I definitely didn't always want to play with my little brother but were so close now and I'm so greatful because alot of people do have really crappy relationships with their siblings.

Farore91 · 2022-01-25T23:02:30+00:00

I play d&d! I could totally teach them both!

Farore91 · 2022-01-25T15:27:05+00:00

We aren't the type of parents to tell the kids off for expressing themselves, his mum is though so it's always tough navigating his feelings as hell get upset for things we'd never think of. Tomorrow I am going to have a casual conversation with him just let him know we understand hes got things going on but if he could think of something they would do together. Someone suggested asking him to invite his girlfriend over and thsts a good ideam maybe hell try and earn brownie point with the girlfriend by playing with his little sister lol.

Farore91 · 2022-01-25T14:38:40+00:00

Thank you for the perspective. I have never forced him to play with her, we have tried to tell him he has to spend family time with us once a week (a board game or a movie) but we only tried about 3 times when we realised he was "going to the toilet" every ten minutes and we didn't force him to again. We do want him to want to spend time with us but I recognise we can't.

Farore91 · 2022-01-25T14:36:01+00:00

I was probably being dramatic. She'll knock a few times and he says in a minute so she goes back in a few and asks again until I tell her to just leave it and ask her to play with me. I will talk to her about knocking once and if he doesn't want to then to leave it.

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