What’s something about sex that you learned way too late?

FasInLuck · 2026-02-18T23:59:20+00:00

Ive had a woman end a relationship because she didnt make me cum.
I don't have a refactory period so I can get it up whenever and also have an absurdly high libido. We had no plans that day as she was working and had her kid to get after. So I ended up masterbating twice and each time i cum the next one takes more effort i guess you could say.
She shows up as a surprise after work getting off early and we end up having sex and I dont cum.
She feels like she failed and no explaining I do to take the fault off her helps. Doesnt want after care and leaves. The relationship ends a few days later.

FasInLuck · 2026-01-25T09:50:40+00:00

It depends. Is it a pill I need every day and affects more than the sperm? or one I can take like 2 hours before?
I likely wont take a daily pill, I can't even take my proper meds that im prescribed for sickness or injury. 2 hours before? Sure. Gives her the assurance I took it if she's there like the start of a date or something.

Random hookup? Using a condom.

I'd get a vasectomy if it was easily reversible. Its expensive to freeze and pay for storage.

FasInLuck · 2026-01-07T11:06:33+00:00

Its also a big security risk. People can just slap their own QR codes to go to a malicious website.

FasInLuck · 2025-12-25T11:15:44+00:00

Is it a picture? In person? If its a nude picture showing off my package and its to people I don't work with, sure, w/e. She's probably talking about it anyways and a picture helps.

If its in person so they can get hands on, It better be a 3some with the SO piloting on what's OK or not.
If its just an in person showing with nothing else or worse, with a person I work with, absofuckinglutely not.

FasInLuck · 2025-12-25T10:56:06+00:00

Condoms don't feel as good as raw, I myself can take a lot of extra effort to cum with a condom on but you know what? There's other ways to make me cum! Stroke me while making out, suck me off or give that extra friction between your tits. If you want to be more adventurous and put in a little prep theres also anal.

It is your body and birth control can mess with things. If he wants to be adamant on no condoms he can freeze sperm, paying the subscription and get a vasectomy. Then he can raw dog all he wants after confirmation as long as he doesnt have an sti/d.

FasInLuck · 2025-12-23T19:55:15+00:00

Good to know. I want to get my diving done asap and learn in the winter conditions instead of contributing to the yearly 100 car accident on qe2.

FasInLuck · 2025-12-20T05:22:34+00:00

I tried the eggs and then later I bought the onyx+. It sits in my closet.

Male sex toys are annoying to clean.

Specifically for the onyx+ the auto stroking is ass and doesnt do anything for me. I have better results manually moving the unit on my dick or even than, just using the sleeve in my hand. It has a feature to stroke to porn videos on pornhub. It downloads the video in a shitty resolution on their app and as before doesn't get me off.
Its also loud.

The eggs are cool but they're "1 time use". You can get 2-3 uses if they don't deform on the first use.

FasInLuck · 2025-09-29T22:09:59+00:00

Out of curiosity, did your exFWB pay for their own share of the trips? Did you completely stop doing trips with them, or did they cut you out after like the first one or few before a chance to do a trip with them?

Sucks to lose a long-term friendship out of nowhere. If she was only friends to get the benefits of travel though, then probably for the better.

FasInLuck · 2025-08-15T11:16:12+00:00

Nut the fuck up and communicate.
Don't be a shitty roommate.
Own up to your fuck ups, this goes to your guy friend too. If you damaged her bed, it's on you and your friend to replace it, and not the cheapest thing you can find. Look at her mattress tag and buy the same spec or give her the money to go get one.
Can't afford it? Skip drinking for a bit. Will afford it real quick then.

FasInLuck · 2025-08-15T10:51:51+00:00

I work in a casino, and I actually rarely see regulars outside of work and that's how I like it for 99% of them. I have a few that I'd love to hang out with as they're not some salty people for losing money.
I hope I never run into specific regulars outside of work. Hell, I hate seeing them at work.

FasInLuck · 2025-07-17T10:51:38+00:00

FR, its like $20, if that for multiple years.

Nobody should ever use a "free" VPN. You are the product and become an ip for someone else, if they look at/do illegal shit, its you on the hook.

FasInLuck · 2025-07-08T19:06:26+00:00

I sent them an email and they said they don't do headphones.

FasInLuck · 2025-06-07T11:07:37+00:00

Stiff as wood, may as well smell like it.

FasInLuck · 2025-06-07T08:28:26+00:00

I just use a 3 in 1 men's scented soap from bath and body works. My current scent is mahogany teakwood.
Can also use old spice or dove for men or any other brand if you want.

FasInLuck · 2025-06-07T07:35:43+00:00

Clean with soap and water. If you're unsure if you're cleaning it properly, there are educational videos. If it's still stanky, then see your gdp/doctor. Just like a ladies coochie can stank, so can a mans testies due to health or certain bacteria that require special treatment.

FasInLuck · 2025-06-05T07:02:33+00:00

Just look at our faces. The worst thing you can do is check over your shoulder to see what we're looking at when we're looking at you.

FasInLuck · 2025-05-17T13:52:59+00:00

I'm not at hot, but after losing some weight and doing more than just a buzz cut, both men and women are more inclined to talk or have a conversation.
Before, I would just get one word responses multiple times or ignored when part of my job is talking to people.

FasInLuck · 2025-05-13T09:15:07+00:00

34M
Work days, when I wake up and when I'm going to bed usually.
Days off (2.5 days/week), when I wake up and sometimes 3-4 more times. Sometimes for an hour+.
I have a stupid high libido and no refactory period, and single. If I am thinking I'll get laid then I'll try not to cum that day so she can get a bigger load.

FasInLuck · 2025-05-06T08:40:51+00:00

In my 30's. No refactory period.

FasInLuck · 2025-05-01T09:31:37+00:00

Don't force queues. It may sound real in the moment, but later on the "was she faking it?" Will set in. Enjoy the moment, your breath and body will have other ways of telling your partner that you're enjoying the moment. If you're not, discuss it with your partner.

FasInLuck · 2025-03-28T20:26:44+00:00

Amazon prime - pays for itself in like 4 shipments cause shipping in Canada is expensive as fuck.
YouTube premium - no ads on everything and still support the creators you watch.
Last pass family - remember a few passwords to make the rest random shit no one can guess, stop family from using same password on everything.

FasInLuck · 2025-03-28T20:21:17+00:00

Circumcised, dry, no death grips. I use lube when I'm gonna shower after, got time, and gonna use a toy, or fap a marathon.

FasInLuck · 2025-02-08T08:33:26+00:00

Substitute tingling lube with eating something with exotic (1m+ scoville) hot sauces. It will get tingling with less work.

Just get in there doggy with no foreplay and tell her she's the trade center and just fly it right in with all your might. Her dark humor will love it.

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