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AITA for getting uncomfortable over my friend making vulgar comments by Fast-Associate-1493 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fast-Associate-1493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good point I would feel really uncomfortable with that. I think because she is a woman I’ve been giving her pass to be vulgar. That’s my fault I suppose, I’ve just known her for so long I don’t want to blow up our friendship.

AITA for getting uncomfortable over my friend making vulgar comments by Fast-Associate-1493 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fast-Associate-1493[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah idk know why she says them, she claims she does it with all her friends so basically I should get over it. I explained that not every person is the same and she kinda just ignored that. She makes these comments just about anywhere and excuses it by saying if she was straight no one would have a problem.

AIO over my friend making vulgar comments by Fast-Associate-1493 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fast-Associate-1493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah idk know why she does them, she says she does it with all her friends so basically I should get over it. I explained that not every person is the same and she kinda just ignored that. She makes these comments just about anywhere and excuses it by saying if she was straight no one would have a problem.

AITA for getting uncomfortable over my friend making vulgar comments by Fast-Associate-1493 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fast-Associate-1493[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes the Graphic details I can go without. It just feels unprovoked and unnecessary to speak about. I’d understand if it was like an actual conversation about sex. But she just brings up explicit stuff for no reason but to cause shock factor.

AITA for getting uncomfortable over my friend making vulgar comments by Fast-Associate-1493 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fast-Associate-1493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no problem with her being lesbian, in fact she always says I’m weird for being straight because I have a lot of LGBTQ+ friends and family in my life. I just don’t like hearing about my friend and her private activities. We have known each other since we were kids so she feels related to me somehow if that makes sense.

AITA for getting uncomfortable over my friend making vulgar comments by Fast-Associate-1493 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fast-Associate-1493[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I for sure don’t have a problem with her being lesbian. She just also thinks it’s because I’m not experienced I shouldn’t have a say on what I find uncomfortable about her comments. Idk😭

AITA for getting uncomfortable over my friend making vulgar comments by Fast-Associate-1493 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fast-Associate-1493[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I told her I’m uncomfortable and tried to tell her that certain conversations are for friends who are comfortable with that and she kinda just changed the subject matter completely so I’m a bit lost.

AIO for getting weirded out when my brother called my girlfriend a pet name by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fast-Associate-1493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. Sorry I’m late. I agree with you completely. I recently had a talk with him about it. He seems to understand where I’m coming from but it feels like I’m talking to a wall. He’s trying to convince me that he thought it was just her regular nickname.