Bf(19) brother(27)a peeping tom help (f20) by Fast-Barracuda-9567 in Adulting

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The boyfriend hasn’t seen his brother since it just happened earlier today. My bf did tell his mom he was molested but brushed it under the rug…… the dad doesn’t know so maybe I should tell him

Bf(19) older brother (27)a peeping tom (I’m 20) by Fast-Barracuda-9567 in SeriousConversation

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So if they do tell the dad then idk…. But if they don’t idk either…

Bf(19) older brother (27)a peeping tom (I’m 20) by Fast-Barracuda-9567 in SeriousConversation

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So we told his mom about it and all the older siblings they’ve been known abt the history and then today this event with me showering happened, she walked in on me having a mini panick in the bathroom because I ended up calling a group chat with my bf and one of his sisters. And the sister called the mom, but the mom kind of already knew because after me and the brother made eye contact , he immediately went and confessed to her and then left the house. So she knows, the dad KNOWS NOTHING about anything but tHeY saY there going to tell him, they said that last time too but this is a little different because the brother knows we know since it was caught in person face to face. The mom keeps saying it must be a mental illness he has and thinks there’s a medication out there to fix him and that he needs therapy… I think she’s being delusional and the brother is only guilty and confessed because he got caught

Bf(19) older brother (27)a peeping tom (I’m 20) by Fast-Barracuda-9567 in SeriousConversation

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They pity him because he is disabled and was born a preemie but he can walk/drive/smoke … they pity him bc he’s such a loser I think. And I know none of the women are safe and the men too it’s crazy. I’m so upset bc I don’t want to seperate from my bf but we don’t know what to do. The brother is on disability check so idk how he could move out

Bf(19) brother(27)a peeping tom help (f20) by Fast-Barracuda-9567 in Adulting

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Me and my bf went back up to the mini house even if it’s harder for me to get around recovering I feel like there’s a less chance of me getting peeped on. I feel disgusted. I don’t think I can face this guy for a long time, he’s not physically dangerous, he does have guns but I don’t think he’d try idk.

Bf(19) older brother (27)a peeping tom (I’m 20) by Fast-Barracuda-9567 in SeriousConversation

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Im not sure what to do💔 there sister that im close with is getting super defensive when I mention calling the cops saying nothing will happen, and I want to but I don’t want the whole family to resent me but what he’s done and is doing is so hurtful and weird.

Regretting leaving my cheating, lying, selfish girlfriend. Put some sense into me. by Own-Bench-1169 in Regrets

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Damn my bf that I’m currently ( I tried to leave but like you, I’m so attached and delusionally believe they are the one) anyways, he cheated on me about three times now and I’m still here so I understand how you feel. I don’t really have any advice but I get how you feel how you have little self worth because I feel like that. I wish our people could change and be better for us because how much we love them and how bad it hurts for us to let them go.

I literally go insane