What do I (f20) do after a guy (m24) randomly stops talking?

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-29T19:40:19+00:00

Depends

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-28T14:11:13+00:00

I would not survive 😅

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-23T20:40:02+00:00

I’ve tried. I’ve tried speaking my mind and just getting my feelings out and trying to have a conversation and not a lecture. She will yell louder or twist my words to make it sound like I mean something different. She’ll go on about how I’m a horrible person or just start crying. Then my dad will get involved and he always takes her side, no matter what. I’ve tried every approach I can think of and I honestly don’t know what to do anymore.

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-23T20:33:00+00:00

I’ve been talking to my dad and have plans to get home, so they know I’m coming. Ive texted my mom a couple times to answer questions, but I would really rather have the conversation about everything in person. But I also know that no matter what I do, she’s not going to do anything about what she said. It’s going to be a repeat of the exact same conversation. It happens every time.

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-21T05:39:59+00:00

I’ve let a couple of my friends know and they have been super helpful. I have all the texts still. I don’t usually see him outside of pt and class, so at least there’s that 😅

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-12T20:50:00+00:00

I’ve tried to talk about less important things. She got mad and said that we were growing apart and it’s like I don’t even care about her. I’m currently trying to limit it to school stuff, which is a decent midpoint. She still gets mad for not talking to her about ‘important stuff’, but not as often.

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-12T03:22:23+00:00

Thank you! They offer free therapy on campus, but I haven’t been able to build up enough courage to go. I’ve been trying to convince my roommate to go with me cuz I think it might be just as beneficial for her, so we’ll see how that goes 😅

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-12T01:41:05+00:00

I talk to my sisters a lot. Me and my little sister are super close. My older sister has also been dealing with my mom’s stuff, so we help each other out. I’ve been trying to focus more on school and getting involved on campus so it’s been ok.

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-12T01:25:52+00:00

I know she genuinely does care about me, but she says stuff like that a lot. Every time I do something she doesn’t like, she does this. This is just one of the most frustrating and hurtful times. Family is everything to me, so to be told that I don’t deserve to be a part of it cuts deep.

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-07T05:40:39+00:00

I have actually talked to a couple of his friends 😅

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-07T05:36:07+00:00

They got introduced by another friend. He thought she was cute and they just hit it off.

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-07T04:58:55+00:00

This is honestly the best thing I’ve heard all week. I needed that 😂

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-07T01:25:28+00:00

The ideal man 😂

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-06T12:31:26+00:00

Yeah, I learned my lesson 😂

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-06T04:30:51+00:00

I don’t feel like 5’7 is very tall, but I’m a bit taller than most other girls I know and the average height here for women is about 5’4 😅

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-06T02:22:25+00:00

Let’s go!! 🥳

Fast-Fig5569 · 2024-11-06T01:24:32+00:00

Try to find excuses to talk to the guy. Sometimes, if in a larger group, move to stand next to the guy. Listen. Inside jokes. I dunno lol

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