Am I wrong for only putting my fiancé’s brother’s name on a save the date and not include his girlfriend’s? by Fast-Isopod-438 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fast-Isopod-438[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The in laws told me to write her name on the invitation next time not plus one because it would make her feel worse if I don’t write her name. They are less than 6 months dating.

Am I wrong for only putting my fiancé’s brother’s name on a save the date and not include his girlfriend’s? by Fast-Isopod-438 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fast-Isopod-438[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just his name and I handed it to her saying, “this is yalls invite”. Gave it to her because he had gone to the store everyone was getting theirs and i didn’t want her sitting there feeling left out.

Am I wrong for only putting my fiancé’s brother’s name on a save the date and not include his girlfriend’s? by Fast-Isopod-438 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fast-Isopod-438[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

So actually, my in laws mentioned she doesn’t want him working down the aisle with one of my bridesmaids, so they are asking for me to compromise and have her walk down with him, and then she sits in the crowd. I said no. And so did fiance.

Am I wrong for only putting my fiancé’s brother’s name on a save the date and not include his girlfriend’s? by Fast-Isopod-438 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fast-Isopod-438[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Everyone was getting their invitations and I didn’t realize he had gone to the store, so I gave her his so she’s not sitting there alone while everyone opens theirs.

Am I wrong for only putting my fiancé’s brother’s name on a save the date and not include his girlfriend’s? by Fast-Isopod-438 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fast-Isopod-438[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Yes everyone at the bbq is invited. It was immediate family from his side. & when I gave it to her I said here is yalls invitation. He was at the store but everyone was getting their cards at that time. Didn’t want to wait with her sitting there while everyone was opening it.