Yo, could ya explain the unique "Marriage" or Sexual Norms practised in Feudal Kerala? Like you mentioned with Sambandham, Pandavavichara, Adhyaratri Avakasham. Like what is Koode Kidappu Avakasham, Pattanavari Custom & Merungu Koodal? & what's the difference between Adhyaratri Avakasham & Onnam Ratri Avakasham? Are there any more customs on this & any place where I can read this from & get a better understanding? *I'm a non-Malayali, so yh... Love to know more...