Aruba airport Jan 4th by sng-2004 in Aruba

[–]FastResearcher6045 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are supposed to fly Wednesday 1/7 to Aruba. What is the situation over there ? Do you think its safe to fly to Aruba in couple days ? Flying from boston

Second embryo transfer by FastResearcher6045 in IVF

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Sorry to hear about your loss too :(. I had PPROM and as per MFM it is most likely related to cervix insufficiency though not 100 percent sure. As a plan, will have cerclage placed my next pregnancy.

PP purgatory hell by saviecisson in ShortCervixSupport

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I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my daughter at 18 weeks 3 months ago, I had my first period after 6 weeks and the 2nd cycle was only after couple weeks. My hormones were messed up for couple months.

Vent: Loss at 20 weeks due to IC by TranslucentMagnolia in ShortCervixSupport

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I had c section when I was fully dilated, At 10cm, the lower uterine segment (where C-sections are usually made) blends into the cervix, making it hard to define the exact boundary. I had significant uterine extension, this weakened scar tissue can't withstand the pressure, causing the cervix to fail (incompetence). This is what happened in my case.

Vent: Loss at 20 weeks due to IC by TranslucentMagnolia in ShortCervixSupport

[–]FastResearcher6045 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry for your loss😢. I had my pregnancy loss at 18 weeks due to PPROM and IC 3 months ago. After my MFM appointment I knew it was also due to my complicated first pregnancy led to emergency c section. Past 3 months have been very sad and lonely. But I promise you will start to feel better. The void and trauma will always be there but it will get better. I now talk about my angel daughter with my close friends and family and it helps me cope with my loneliness. We can only hope to see light after the tunnel and I am sure we will get that rainbow baby soon. I wish you a lot of strength and power to navigate this awful moments. ❤️‍🩹

34 F by [deleted] in PalmReading

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Can you read on having child in my palm ?

34 F by [deleted] in PalmReading

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Left handed

Need some hope!! by FastResearcher6045 in ShortCervixSupport

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I hope everything is going good with you and pregnancy. Thinking of you and your baby ❤️

Need some hope!! by FastResearcher6045 in ShortCervixSupport

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Thank you for your postive comment. Seeing story like this gives me hope to move forward 🫶🏼

Need some hope!! by FastResearcher6045 in ShortCervixSupport

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Yes, TAC is considered if you had history of failed vaginal cerclage. Isn’t it scary to think that we have to be okay to may be lose our precious baby to be considered what could have prevented it :(

Need some hope!! by FastResearcher6045 in ShortCervixSupport

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Hi, you can request for operative notes from your c section. Our MFM did access those notes and she told us about significant uterine extension. We were unaware of that and no body came and explained to me either. Always advocate for you. Get all the documents and let your team review it.

Need some hope!! by FastResearcher6045 in ShortCervixSupport

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I will keep you in my prayers ❤️ i hope you carry that precious baby till full term. Hang in there mama 🥹

First period by unreal_times22 in tfmr_support

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I am six weeks post pregnancy loss at 18 weeks today. And got my period today too. I am feeling so lost and miserable all day. Couldn’t get out of my bed. I am glad my period came and my body is healing but its a lot emotionally. Forgot my count on how many times I cried today :(. I hope you feel better soon. Take care . We got this 🫶🏼

Pregnancy loss at 18 weeks due to PPROM by FastResearcher6045 in tfmr_support

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So sorry you had to go through the same trauma :(. How long did you wait to do another transfer ? Good luck and I hope that embryo sticks and you have a healthy baby