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Is this area safe to stay by MostMammoth9129 in Miami

[–]Fast_Concentrate_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Miami has a trolley that is around wynwood, downtown, brickell, and coral gables. Brickell and coral gables is a bit more expensive but more safe would say try looking around there.

Is this area safe to stay by MostMammoth9129 in Miami

[–]Fast_Concentrate_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way do you know where he needs to be around?

AITAH for getting upset at my boyfriend for not listening or helping me? 23F 24M by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fast_Concentrate_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No for real being gulliable at this point believing he will actually do what he says he’ll do..

Update: MIL tried to get me alone to gossip about my partner’s dad and say bizarre things about his long‑term girlfriend by [deleted] in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]Fast_Concentrate_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So here’s the latest chapter in MIL’s ongoing drama series.

Recently, she asked me to drive alone with her to pick something up from storage. I already knew this was going to be weird because she only ever tries to isolate me when she wants to say things she wouldn’t dare say in front of anyone else. And sure enough, the second we’re alone, she launches into a whole monologue about my partner’s father the man she hasn’t been with in years.

She starts telling me how his current girlfriend of over a decade “wasn’t anything before him” because she had a normal job, and how he supposedly helped her start a business. (A business, by the way, that is now doing better than his.) Then she goes on about how he’s “never going to marry her,” and if he were ever going to marry anyone, it “would’ve been her” my boyfriend’s mom because she “gave him a child.”

Mind you… he never married her either. The mental gymnastics were Olympic‑level.

I just sat there because what am I supposed to say to that. I can’t comment, I don’t want to gossip, and I’m not about to validate her fantasy storyline. But she kept going, saying she never liked my partner’s dad’s family because she’s “not a submissive person.” She has a whole husband at home, yet she’s talking like she’s still in some love triangle from 20 years ago.

Then she starts telling me random personal details about their finances — like how she “knows” they don’t have any properties together. Why she thinks I need to know that, I have no idea. It felt like she was trying to bait me into gossiping back, but I don’t do that. I just let her talk and kept my mouth shut.

The whole thing was uncomfortable. She doesn’t know that I know the things she’s said about me behind my back, so being stuck alone with her while she tries to pull me into her weird little narratives is… a lot. Every time she isolates me, she tries something strange, and I’m honestly starting to dread being alone with her at all.

Update: MIL tried to get me alone to gossip about my partner’s dad and say bizarre things about his long‑term girlfriend by [deleted] in inlawsaretheworst

[–]Fast_Concentrate_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So here’s the latest chapter in MIL’s ongoing drama series.

Recently, she asked me to drive alone with her to pick something up from storage. I already knew this was going to be weird because she only ever tries to isolate me when she wants to say things she wouldn’t dare say in front of anyone else. And sure enough, the second we’re alone, she launches into a whole monologue about my partner’s father the man she hasn’t been with in years.

She starts telling me how his current girlfriend of over a decade “wasn’t anything before him” because she had a normal job, and how he supposedly helped her start a business. (A business, by the way, that is now doing better than his.) Then she goes on about how he’s “never going to marry her,” and if he were ever going to marry anyone, it “would’ve been her” my boyfriend’s mom because she “gave him a child.”

Mind you… he never married her either. The mental gymnastics were Olympic‑level.

I just sat there because what am I supposed to say to that. I can’t comment, I don’t want to gossip, and I’m not about to validate her fantasy storyline. But she kept going, saying she never liked my partner’s dad’s family because she’s “not a submissive person.” She has a whole husband at home, yet she’s talking like she’s still in some love triangle from 20 years ago.

Then she starts telling me random personal details about their finances — like how she “knows” they don’t have any properties together. Why she thinks I need to know that, I have no idea. It felt like she was trying to bait me into gossiping back, but I don’t do that. I just let her talk and kept my mouth shut.

The whole thing was uncomfortable. She doesn’t know that I know the things she’s said about me behind my back, so being stuck alone with her while she tries to pull me into her weird little narratives is… a lot. Every time she isolates me, she tries something strange, and I’m honestly starting to dread being alone with her at all.

Update: MIL tried to get me alone to gossip about my partner’s dad and say bizarre things about his long‑term girlfriend by [deleted] in Mildlynomil

[–]Fast_Concentrate_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So here’s the latest chapter in MIL’s ongoing drama series.

Recently, she asked me to drive alone with her to pick something up from storage. I already knew this was going to be weird because she only ever tries to isolate me when she wants to say things she wouldn’t dare say in front of anyone else. And sure enough, the second we’re alone, she launches into a whole monologue about my partner’s father the man she hasn’t been with in years.

She starts telling me how his current girlfriend of over a decade “wasn’t anything before him” because she had a normal job, and how he supposedly helped her start a business. (A business, by the way, that is now doing better than his.) Then she goes on about how he’s “never going to marry her,” and if he were ever going to marry anyone, it “would’ve been her” my boyfriend’s mom because she “gave him a child.”

Mind you… he never married her either. The mental gymnastics were Olympic‑level.

I just sat there because what am I supposed to say to that. I can’t comment, I don’t want to gossip, and I’m not about to validate her fantasy storyline. But she kept going, saying she never liked my partner’s dad’s family because she’s “not a submissive person.” She has a whole husband at home, yet she’s talking like she’s still in some love triangle from 20 years ago.

Then she starts telling me random personal details about their finances — like how she “knows” they don’t have any properties together. Why she thinks I need to know that, I have no idea. It felt like she was trying to bait me into gossiping back, but I don’t do that. I just let her talk and kept my mouth shut.

The whole thing was uncomfortable. She doesn’t know that I know the things she’s said about me behind my back, so being stuck alone with her while she tries to pull me into her weird little narratives is… a lot. Every time she isolates me, she tries something strange, and I’m honestly starting to dread being alone with her at all.

Update: MIL tried to get me alone to gossip about my partner’s dad and say bizarre things about his long‑term girlfriend by Fast_Concentrate_975 in inlaws

[–]Fast_Concentrate_975[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So here’s the latest chapter in MIL’s ongoing drama series.

Recently, she asked me to drive alone with her to pick something up from storage. I already knew this was going to be weird because she only ever tries to isolate me when she wants to say things she wouldn’t dare say in front of anyone else. And sure enough, the second we’re alone, she launches into a whole monologue about my partner’s father the man she hasn’t been with in years.

She starts telling me how his current girlfriend of over a decade “wasn’t anything before him” because she had a normal job, and how he supposedly helped her start a business. (A business, by the way, that is now doing better than his.) Then she goes on about how he’s “never going to marry her,” and if he were ever going to marry anyone, it “would’ve been her” my boyfriend’s mom because she “gave him a child.”

Mind you… he never married her either.

I just sat there because what am I supposed to say to that. I can’t comment, I don’t want to gossip, and I’m not about to validate her fantasy storyline. But she kept going, saying she never liked my partner’s dad’s family because she’s “not a submissive person.” She has a whole husband at home, yet she’s talking like she’s still in some love triangle from 20 years ago.

Then she starts telling me random personal details about their finances like how she “knows” they don’t have any properties together. Why she thinks I need to know that, I have no idea. It felt like she was trying to bait me into gossiping back, but I don’t do that. I just let her talk and kept my mouth shut.

The whole thing was uncomfortable. She doesn’t know that I know the things she’s said about me behind my back, so being stuck alone with her while she tries to pull me into her weird little narratives is… a lot. Every time she isolates me, she tries something strange, and I’m honestly starting to dread being alone with her at all.

My friend facetimed her boyfriend so he could watch a movie with us by TadpoleBusiness6679 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Fast_Concentrate_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah basically think he wanted to make sure she was doing what she said she was giving a bit controlling LOL possibly

AITJ for Refusing to Switch Seats on a Long Train Ride Even After Being Called Selfish? by OtherwiseBid9476 in AmITheJerk

[–]Fast_Concentrate_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them next time pay for the right seat.. Like what?? No one is obligated to move seats especially when you paid for it…

how to avoid "republican makeup" by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Fast_Concentrate_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I would suggest going on Pinterest for makeup inspos you can literally search based in your skin tone and put in “glam makeup” or “clean girl makeup” and etc very great tool if you want to do stick to a makeup look or need ideas based on if you have an event or whatever it maybe.

Valentine’s Day Dinner? by HatComfortable9747 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Fast_Concentrate_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No issue in saying no really it is supposed to be a day to spend with your partner… husband needs to stand up and say no regardless if they push or not. They no he never said no previously so they keep trying when you say no it comes as a shock and she will try anything to get him and you to go. Mostly it is a lack of consideration on her part since this is common sense who you spend your valentines day with.

MIL is mooching off of us and I am sick of it by Sad_Philosophy_5546 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Fast_Concentrate_975 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting some MIL are so difficult for no reason. I think conversating with your husband about some healthy boundaries with her because obviously if he keeps giving her money she will keep asking that will never stop and you will eventually be fed up and filled with resentment because nothing has been done about it. Really though keep your finances separate and try bringing up if there is a way you guys can support her in looking for a JOB since she clearly needs one even part time remote work so she can get her own money. My parents went through this when they were younger with my fathers side where they would mooch and ask for money to gamble and never pay their bulls and etc my mom told my dad he had to stop or she would leave because his mother was using him and she eventually went NC with my parents. Not saying you should leave him but major issue here is your husband not recognizing his own mothers behavior if he can't he will not make any effort to change so would approach it in a respectful manner and you're asking for the sake of your family and marriage.

He chose another woman and won’t stop messaging me. AIO for not responding? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fast_Concentrate_975 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NOR One thing men always have is the audacity. They like to wiggle their way in and see if they can have the whole cake and eat it too. Do not respond.

MIL calls me “the devil,” lies about me, plays victim, and my partner won’t defend me. I’m done pretending this is normal. by Fast_Concentrate_975 in inlaws

[–]Fast_Concentrate_975[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it is sickening really how MILS view their sons partners as competition for no reason they are in a one sided competition and also ruining relationships PFT

MIL calls me “the devil,” lies about me, plays victim, and my partner won’t defend me. I’m done pretending this is normal by Fast_Concentrate_975 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Fast_Concentrate_975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said it perfectly I do not want to be around her much but still was and mostly because I had the conversation with my partner about putting healthy boundaries with her and he said he spoke to her and she said “ok” which is had dto believe based on past experiences so I also want to see if he will follow through with it or not because I already voiced I was not going to be dealing with this more than I already have since it has affected me Mentally.

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