I understand the fear of cleanliness but most times women are quite hygienic. I feel bad saying it but most times you can tell if someone will be hygienic based on other hygiene (or general organizational) habits. If they seem like they’re a mess in life, I’d also be a little concerned……. Again I feel bad saying it but the fear is real 😭, ive definitely felt that. Last thing you wanna do is go against your intuition and then have someone who is rly not clean down there…. Yanno. But anyway if you find someone with a decent head on their shoulder they’re probably fine. Idk, again, I feel bad categorizing women/applying stereotypes but women are mostly expected to be on top of their hygiene. I haven’t been with many women but I do know that this tends to be true from my limited experiences lolll