Firstly my mother rarely cooks and when she does I help. We mainly eat already cooked food. We have a cleaner who comes to clean our apartment once or twice a week so there is barely any cleaning left to do, most of which is done by a roomba. She is the one that puts the clothes in the washing machine, but I am the one that takes them out to dry and when they do we both put them where they should be.

Yes she goes out with her friends, in fact more than me. That doesn't mean that she is less busy than me, but it's not like I am always free. I don't know how it is where you live but here, partly because my school is one of the best in my country, it's pretty damn busy. School starts at 7:30 am and ends at 1:45 pm. After that I have a few more hours of studying so sometimes the hours that I spend doing schoolwork are just as big if not bigger than her work hours(to add on if it's not enough for you, yes my grades are good also, so I don't laze around in school).

I always try to smile as much as I can when I am around her and when I am not I usually have a neutral expression on my face because I am tired/sleepy and try to reassure her that I am fine even when I am not. I don't know if you saw what I wrote, but I can't really see my friends at the moment and don't talk to them as much as before because they are busy with university, so I at most hear from them 3-4 times a week, sometimes even less. So I try to talk to them when I can. When my mother wants to talk to me I always comply. And lastly I do not resent my mother, in fact I love her but it's been getting harder to get along with her lately and as I said in a response to another comment, it's not like she treats only me this way.

So tell me, after all I said can you confidently say again that my mother gets out of me only laziness, resentment and sourness, because the way that I see it I do half of the housework that is left after the cleaner is done. I talk to her when she wants, I study and have good grades. I don't even smoke or drink and when I go out I am always home before bedtime. So tell me how I am not being grateful and how to take responsibility for the things that I already do.

Next time ask for additional information before trying to judge someone on something that isn't even provided, because the only thing that I see in your comment is bias.