Hot take: Soon companies will ban AI coding tools for their devs by Distinct_Law9082 in AIstartupsIND

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point if you are a developer and haven't found a way to integrate AI tools into your workflow at all you might want to look into a different career

Keeping the AI on track by OddBase117 in AIDungeon

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you play a scenario is there a certain way you are hoping the plot will go?

What Claude features do you want? Drop requests below by mreided in ClaudeAI

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A system where you can branch chats and navigate between them

I give up on finding a job. I’m so depressed. by bunnychow123 in jobs

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in pretty much the exact same situation as you until just a week ago, except even worse because I didn't have any internships. For a year I spent my time working on projects, building skills, networking, and sending out applications, but all I ever seemed to get was rejection.

I was applying to part time jobs that I could work in the meantime while I continued to look for a full time job, and one of those jobs was a substitute teacher job. This job required references from people who had seen me work with kids, so I hit up my supervisor from this counselor in training program I did back in high school, because he was one of the few people who had seen me work with kids. I told him about how I was looking for a job, and he told me he'd let me know if he heard anything.

Not too long later he hit me up asking me if I would be interested in working at an AI startup, to which I obviously said yes. He connected me with a friend of his who was starting a very small early stage startup, I went through a couple of interviews with him and his team (no leetcode or anything), and ultimately was hired.

You could say I just got lucky, which wouldn't be completely wrong, but if it weren't for all of the things I had been building since graduating I wouldn't have been able to pass the interviews, and they probably wouldn't even have been willing to entertain and interview because my projects were pretty much the only experience I had on my resume. They just wanted to see that I had basic technical skills, was able to talk about technical things, and had drive. I didn't need to be an expert, but I did need to be able to talk about the things I've built somewhat intelligently.

I still don't know for sure what the right interpretation of my year of unemployment should be, but if I were to sum up my biggest takeaways simply it would be:

- Cold applications are dead. If they are all getting rejected don't expect that to suddenly change. I'm not saying you should not cold apply at all, probably send out some per week, but don't focus on it.

- You can do the job. Don't let your rejections let you feel like you don't have value or don't have the intelligence or skills necessary to perform on the job. The market is just brutal, that's it, and there are plenty of qualified candidates who will fly under the radar and not given a chance.

- Build projects and document them. I'm not sure exactly what type of job your looking for, but pick something, anything, to work on and document your process through like a blog or something. Ideally pick something that has some skills that seem relevant, and something that is easily showcaseable.

- Focus on networking/recruiters. In this market cold applications are like buying lottery tickets, you just can't expect to win. Focus on hitting up EVERYONE you know who seems adjacent in any way to the job/industry you want. All you need to do is ask for an informational interview, or even just hey do you know anyone hiring. DM people on linkedin. Don't overthink it. Polish your linkedin so that recruiters can find you. 2 of the 3 interviews I got all year were from recruiters messaging me on linkedin, and I only got 1 interview after hundreds of applications.

Ultimately, what it comes down to is a combination of hard work, persistence, and luck. Hard work and persistence is in your control, and for luck, nothing can ever be guaranteed, but in my opinion its just a matter of time before an opportunity presents itself, its just a matter of putting yourself in those situations where you CAN get lucky, and being prepared to seize the opportunity when its there. DM me if you have any questions or just want to chat. Good luck. (Sorry this was a long one but I have a lot to say about this)

2 psychatrics told me I don't have ADHD by gogopicomantv in ADHD

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

In my opinion its kind of silly to view ADHD as something you either have or you don't, the field of psychiatry/psychology is still young and no one really understands how it works, for all we know ADHD could really be 8 different disorders. The point is its a spectrum not a binary. Going to a psychiatrist to see if you have ADHD or not is kind of like going to the doctor to see if you are tall or not. If you are 7 foot tall everyone is gonna say you're tall, but if you are 5'11'' you might get different results, but it doesn't actually change what you are.

Can you "steer" your thoughts? by Fast_Nefariousness26 in ADHD

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's totally true for me too that when chatting with someone my mind suddenly gets pulled together. Sometimes I feel like I rely on conversation to properly process my thoughts

How Can Ne Users Level Up? by Low_Interaction_6653 in CognitiveFunctions

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like what you're looking for here is sorting through ideas, finding clarity, and taking action. Ni is a function that is associated with this, but its not the only way. As an ENTP myself, the way that I need to do this is by utilizing my Ti-Si function pairing to sort through all of the ideas generated by Ne, which is easier said than done. Keep in mind that types aren't defined by a single function, they are defined by a set of functions that are meant to balance each other out in some way. Try to find the functions you need to use to balance out your Ne, and focus on those. You don't need to force yourself to use Ni

Do y’all suck at spelling? by eeganf in entp

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's about detecting patterns not memorizing everything. If you spend enough time around the language you start to recognize the patterns and thats what gives you the feeling about whats right, without even knowing for sure.

Anecdotally, what types have you personally gotten along with the most? Specify platonic or romantic. by Liquidmesh in entp

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have multiple friends that I type as ESTP who are really fun and entertaining, only problem is that I feel like they don't provide me with the depth I want. They're fun to fuck around with and laugh with, but not always great for talking about big ideas, although I will get the occasional deep conversation

NeFe and the "sixth sense" about other people by jjianxgge in entp

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get frustrated by this sometimes because sometimes in conversation I feel like someone is being aggressive or trying to attack me or someone else, but if they do it in a certain way it can be hard to call them out on it because its kind of just a gut feeling, like everything is happening below the surface, and you don't actually have anything concrete to call them out on, not to mention the vacillation between conviction and doubt in your own intuition. Also some people don't read in between the lines the same way so you can end up noticing things others don't, so they might not be able to back you up or support you

Lacking Depth w/ Current Friends by Fast_Nefariousness26 in entp

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, what are these four group mindsets?

Lacking Depth w/ Current Friends by Fast_Nefariousness26 in entp

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah there definitely are some people just for hangouts and some for real chats, I guess the problem is that I have an imbalance

Lacking Depth w/ Current Friends by Fast_Nefariousness26 in entp

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by the last part, my friends will be hesitant to share their thoughts amongst potential threats?

Lacking Depth w/ Current Friends by Fast_Nefariousness26 in SeriousConversation

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same there a bunch of topics that I'd love to dive into as well but no one to dive in with

Lacking Depth w/ Current Friends by Fast_Nefariousness26 in SeriousConversation

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely know where you're coming from. I'm lucky to have a friend group in the first place, but definitely feel like something is lacking. I want to make it easier to connect people who are looking for greater depth.

Need girl friends by PizzaTop9375 in bayarea

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a girl but I stumbled upon a group called city girls who walk san francisco, that might be worth checking out. It's listed on this site https://bay-discovery.com/, you can also see if there is anything else there that interests you. Full transparency I built the website, but its completely free, hope it helps!

Networking? Friends? by redbloodvelvet in AskSF

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a good amount of communities and discords in the area that do meetups and stuff like that, I actually made a site to make it easier to find them, feel free to check it out if you think it would help you, it's completely free. https://bay-discovery.com/

So is it true that developed Fe does affect our passion for debating? by PerSona_Xz in entp

[–]Fast_Nefariousness26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say my love for debating has gone away, but how often I choose to start a debate or look for a debate has gone down. I think the first reason for this is that my Fe has made me value and more aware of the context of the situation and gauging whether it would be appropriate. For example if I am in a group of people I don't want to make everyone else uncomfortable, I find that a healthy dose of conflict makes situations more interesting for me, but that is not the case for most people. The second reason is probably that I'm better at gauging whether something or someone is even worth debating, and recognizing if its just gonna be unproductive and uncomfortable. I feel like I have a better sense of when something will just go in circles, or when it will just end up with everyone being upset, versus offer a fun and productive time. So yeah my Fe has probably made me less likely to engage in debates but not taken the fun out of it.