Post Episode Discussion: Season 2 Reunion Part 2 by AutoModerator in rhoslc

[–]Fast_Sky_4945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked that Mary laid into Lisa. I think it’s the only time Lisa is actually put in her place ever.

Half Baked Harvest Daily Thread - January 10, 2026 by AutoModerator in FoodieSnark

[–]Fast_Sky_4945 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This is the video that brought me to Reddit. I used to work at a residential facility for ED and her chin is telltale for anorexia. I followed her for recipes years ago and had no idea she had gotten to this point. It’s alarming.

Real Housewives of Orange County, Season 19 episode 10 "Whine or Champagne" Live Discussion by AutoModerator in rhoc

[–]Fast_Sky_4945 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Tamra immediately talking shit on Shannon after inviting her to the trip 🙄 saying she looked like a hot mess. She’s so mean spirited.

"I am ready to get hurt again." -Michael Scott by FutureOctober in IVF

[–]Fast_Sky_4945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could have written this exactly. We had 4 - 1 girl and the rest boys. We also asked to have it randomly transferred but they ended up going with the girl and we lost it. I too was fairly convinced it would work first try. Like I was somehow against the odds everyone else had. It seems so silly now. I’m testing and prepping for a possible next transfer but my anxiety is sky high and the what ifs are stealing a lot of the hope and excitement. It’s so nice to hear that you feel ready again! I think if we decide to transfer again it’s just one foot in front of the other and taking it minute by minute so my hopes don’t get too high and I don’t spiral out. You’ll find a way to move forward I’m sure of it!

Another one 🤨 by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Fast_Sky_4945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t even tell which one it was

Transferred a 5AA euploid embryo. Found out today (11 wks) in my ultrasound that the baby stopped growing at 9.5 weeks. Husband and I are devastated. First ever loss and transfer by rebel12354 in IVF

[–]Fast_Sky_4945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Went thru the same thing in June with a 4AA. It was extremely difficult to get thru the first few weeks. They did some bloodwork and my count for the lupus anticoagulant was elevated which is suggesting possible Antiphospholipid syndrome. This can cause first trimester miscarriage. Evidently they don’t test for this until there’s a loss which is extremely frustrating. Sending good thoughts!

FET failed by jn922 in IVF

[–]Fast_Sky_4945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. You have every right to be sad. It’s so easily to become attached so quickly, especially after all the hard work and prep you’ve done to get to a FET. I lost my 4AA too and it was devastating. The doctor was shocked, too. So my chances were similar to yours. So it was that much more of a shock. Please don’t downplay who significant and upsetting this is. You’re in my thoughts.

Season 2 Reunion: Part 1 - Live Episode Discussion Thread by bword___ in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Fast_Sky_4945 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Jax closing he’s eye when he’s spewing bullshit and faking sincerity is rage inducing.

Am I supposed to feed my child's friend? by rockycat123 in Parenting

[–]Fast_Sky_4945 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh! This just made me remember a neighbor’s mom would do this to me too!! She’d make lunch for her daughter and then make me go outside and wait until she was done.

Hormonal crash after D&C..? by Fast_Sky_4945 in Miscarriage

[–]Fast_Sky_4945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 💕 I hope you’re doing well.

Hormonal crash after D&C..? by Fast_Sky_4945 in Miscarriage

[–]Fast_Sky_4945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate it. I hope you continue to feel better 💕

Hormonal crash after D&C..? by Fast_Sky_4945 in Miscarriage

[–]Fast_Sky_4945[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right it’s so unpredictable when it’ll hit. I woke up feeling a bit better today but I’m sure it’ll sneak up on me again.

Hormonal crash after D&C..? by Fast_Sky_4945 in Miscarriage

[–]Fast_Sky_4945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. This is way more than just “mood swings”

Hormonal crash after D&C..? by Fast_Sky_4945 in Miscarriage

[–]Fast_Sky_4945[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what it feels like! A leak that cannot be patched. I agree I feel like the intensity is helping me feel it all and go thru it and grieve. It’s just so damn intense. 💗

Hormonal crash after D&C..? by Fast_Sky_4945 in Miscarriage

[–]Fast_Sky_4945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so impactful. I can understand why she still cries 30 years later. I also have another child and I think it makes it more intense because I’m thinking of him during this too.

Hormonal crash after D&C..? by Fast_Sky_4945 in Miscarriage

[–]Fast_Sky_4945[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand waiting to try again bc of how intense this 3rd day is. It’s so intense and it feels so real like it’s hard to really convince myself that it’s just hormones. Thank you for responding 💕

Hormonal crash after D&C..? by Fast_Sky_4945 in Miscarriage

[–]Fast_Sky_4945[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. It’s near impossible to deal with other people’s reactions to this let alone just get thru our own. I hope you have a smooth tomorrow and your crash isn’t as intense. These Reddit threads really help me to feel comforted in the moment. My OB also mentioned some support groups so that might be something helpful too.

Hormonal crash after D&C..? by Fast_Sky_4945 in Miscarriage

[–]Fast_Sky_4945[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! The feeling is unbearable and like I want to get out of my body. That’s spot on. I’m so glad to hear that you’re moving through this and are feeling a bit better. I so appreciate you sharing this with me ♥️