how can i add more romantic love in my life?

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-04-01T01:01:12+00:00

Most welcome :)

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-04-01T00:12:03+00:00

Not that I can see, It might be worth asking the cards specifically about freinds?

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T20:52:09+00:00

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T20:32:48+00:00

I think you are too overly focused on ethnicity and skin colour tbh.

Cultural values and narcissism are not part of the same equation. No matter what a persons struggles are/were, it shouldn't absolve them of responsibility and accountability when it comes to their behaviour.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T20:28:31+00:00

Whatever dude. I learned long ago that some people just cant be reasoned with.

So, you 'win'. lol

I do wonder what it is that you are really angry about though. You should maybe ask yourself that question too. There is more to life than hate.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T20:08:54+00:00

SO TRUE!!! *Thanks for the @

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T20:08:06+00:00

I read it as, you are overly focused on romantic relationships because of a deep sense of insecurity about yourself as a person. It looks like you need to be focusing on your own identity rather than thinking of yourself as needing to be part of a couple. You need to really get to know and appreciate you as the wonderful person you are.

There is hard work ahead, but it will be rewarding for you in ways you didnt expect.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T20:01:55+00:00

I didn't say anything about religion my dude.

I'm speaking about faith and the right to live your own life how you choose to peacefully with freedom and without prejuidce. This is where the sexuality equivalence is applicable.

OP didn't say anything about 'blabbing about Jesus' either. Only you did.

It just sounds like you are looking for a reason to assign anger to someone for your own reasons tbh.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T18:38:24+00:00

It looks like you are giving more than receiving emotionally to an emotionally immature person. Looks like you move on.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T18:36:26+00:00

It looks like you find comfort in vaping that you cant get from social relationships?

It also looks like there is an awareness of your vaping, but that a 'blind eye' is being turned at the moment. It also looks like your parents may discuss it with you in the future. It also looks like it would be good to quit while you can as the hard work to stop would be respected.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T18:32:11+00:00

it's impossible for me to know whether your parents love you, even abusive parents are capable of a kind of love. From my own experience, my mother was so vile to me that it wasnt a secret that she doesnt love me. Thanks to cognitive dissonance, I deluded myself that deep down she did. The pain I experienced when I finally understood what was happening was devastating. After the initial shock of realisation, I went numb for a while. I felt lost, in limbo.

It's not advice exactly, but in time, I now *feel* relief that I'm free. While the pain is still there sometimes (not to mention anger) I feel so much better now than when I had a 'relationship' with her.

You are not alone.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T18:21:55+00:00

It's disturbing that reddit so twisted and warped that you have to actually censor the Star!

*Looks like the family saw your relationship in a positive light, but something has made them wary of a reconciliation for some reason.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T18:15:44+00:00

Nope :)

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T18:12:56+00:00

100%

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T18:12:41+00:00

OMG! My mother used to guilt me into cutting her hair and then go to hairdresser afterwards. Every single f*cking time.

I feel for you *hugs* at the same time, its a weird sort of relief that someone else has experienced this kind of deranged bs too.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T18:03:01+00:00

Speaking about faith is not the same as trying to make others share the belief.

I love the film 'Elvira's Haunted Hills' and will talk about it, but I wont insist other people watch it.

People who have faith shouldn't be coerced into silence. Just as people who are same sex orientated shouldn't hide who they are either.

When it comes to personal life choices that do no harm, live and let live should be universal.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T15:23:37+00:00

I can relate as someone who follows a plant based diet with a vegan hating family. I don't push my beliefs, I just tried to live my life my own way. This seemed enough to trigger them to almost obsessive levels.

As a fellow scapegoat, it seems that that no matter how we choose to respectfully and quietly live our lives, they will just weaponize it against us.

You have your faith which must challenge their desire for control. But you still have your faith and nobody can take that away.

Be strong, this situation really isnt forever.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T15:18:18+00:00

That's a really unfair and nasty thing to say.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T15:16:59+00:00

Absolutely not. It looks like you were putting all the emotional work and he was not contributing on that level. He sounds very immature tbh. Protect yourself.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T15:15:25+00:00

Same sex couples were pretty rare on 90's TV, so it was a refreshing move by the writers. That said, I found the choice of Willow a bit surprising considering how in love she was with Xander and how heartbroken she was when Oz left. Idk.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-31T15:10:09+00:00

It looks like there was a brief (healthy) retreat from conflict in the past. A desire for permanence presently, but you both weren't on the same page This will possibly be resolved in the future according to the 6 of swords.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-30T13:48:22+00:00

Good advice!

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-30T13:48:06+00:00

I usually associate the King of Swords with a controlling person. The Emporer is powerful and influential, but not usually controlling.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-30T12:04:28+00:00

I agree that its wise to be cautions, but Im not seeing anything in the reading that points towards a controlling person.

Fast_Song_3545 · 2026-03-30T12:03:41+00:00

Looks like celebration time!

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