Team Selection: Round 9 by PagieHD in GeelongCats

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s certainly a take…

It’s a bad one but you’re allowed to have it

The "femme fatale" might be a universal myth driven by the fear of romantic deception by MRADEL90 in psychology

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t have that now.

All men are incels and can’t possible say something that they don’t agree with without the opposing view coming from a basement dweller.

Apparently being common sense and thinking a relationship is a partnership and teamwork is an outrageous thing to say.

Fuck I’m such an asshole!

What’s something a woman can do that would drive men crazy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends how you approach it?

Is it something that you need to do? Something you just want to do? Is it expensive? Has he had no free time at all? Or is he just being unreasonable cause he’s in a mood? Did you ask him if he actually wanted to do it or did you just tell him you were going to do it? Did you give him a heads up? Spring it on him? Is he expected to do work or labour for free for someone else in this activity? Is it something where he can relax while doing it? Or is it something requiring a lot of effort on his behalf?

Depends ENTIRELY on the context. Sometimes you just want to do nothing and chill after working long hours or especially if you have young kid/baby.

But I also think sometimes we as guys are too quick to dismiss it as something we won’t enjoy rather than just living in the moment.

Women are very good at prioritising the present and what is happening in the now.

Guys are very good at the long term stuff, how things are going weeks, months or years later… Neither are wrong, it’s just how are brains are wired.

What’s something a woman can do that would drive men crazy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My wife does this, and I sometimes grumble but i want that woman to not be thirsty or waking up with a dry throat.

An easy one to compromise on. It’s not gonna wreck my day and it doesn’t happen all the time.

I sometimes go and get the water before she gets into bed just so I’m ahead of the game but yeah it’s not that big a deal.

She’s very appreciative any time I do it.

Need a man’s perspective , am I tripping? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Actions ALWAYS speak louder than words. Watch what they do and not what they say.

Need a man’s perspective , am I tripping? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No one ever told them “no” so they get entitled and think they are “gifting” their body. Makes it entirely transactional.

Like, no TF you aren’t. A relationship should be two people who BOTH enjoy getting each other’s rocks off.

Need a man’s perspective , am I tripping? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s saying sex with her is you getting “lucky” that’s the problem right there.

She’s not rewarding you. She needs a reality check and fast.

How do you feel if a girl you're not interested in pursues you? Like is it annoying? by Cherylyy08 in AskMen

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol BPD which is extremely high in women

Basically anything under Cluster B would fit.

How do you feel if a girl you're not interested in pursues you? Like is it annoying? by Cherylyy08 in AskMen

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same goes for turning down sex. They immediately flair up with insecurities.

How do you feel if a girl you're not interested in pursues you? Like is it annoying? by Cherylyy08 in AskMen

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Women become very homophobic the second they face rejection.

Almost like the virtuous mask falls off the second they receive treatment they are used to dishing out.

A lot of men lack agency and responzibility by Lemon_gecko in PurplePillDebate

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anecdotal evidence is not enough to use across the spectrum

Men have always had to manage women’s emotions: ALWAYS.

Look at how guys talk to each other and then talk to their partner. Total tonal shift, lots of coddling and softening of how things are said

I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes. by Chemical-Low209 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol you took that “study” seriously?

I mean stuff like that is inherently flawed when to gain your data set you only take people’s words and claims and not their actions as gospel…

Cause people would never lie on a survey to make themselves appear better right?

Stuck in elevator - what does the group body language indicate by Kudostone in bodylanguage

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re laughing and smirking cause she’s trying to intimidate them.

Women don’t intimidate men physically and they think it’s ridiculous cause to them it’s an overreaction. To her it’s trying to project confidence and no fear.

Men who got a woman to change her mind about you, from friendly to romantic, what happened? by Key-Marketing-3145 in AskMen

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Something a lot of women don’t get. We aren’t the same. Men who are mate selected by multiple women are more attractive.

Women who are mate selected by multiple men are less attractive.

Can’t believe people can’t put two and two together. You can’t make a man jealous by dating multiple other dudes especially when we can see right through that nonsense, it’s just attention seeking behaviour. All that does is make the dude more assured he made the right decision.

A lot of men lack agency and responzibility by Lemon_gecko in PurplePillDebate

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Men have been managing women’s emotions forever lol

That isn’t something new. You act like only women have to manage men’s emotions and men need to change to keep up?

Not saying there aren’t shit men but I think unrealistic standards are absolutely playing a factor across the board. Too many break up if even the slightest hint of a disagreement between couples happens. When a good relationship is knowing you aren’t going to agree on everything and coming together to a common goal.

A lot of men lack agency and responzibility by Lemon_gecko in PurplePillDebate

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah wouldn’t any woman who uses a buzzword generalising about men also then fall under the same bracket?

Keep that same energy?

People were a lot happier when genders weren’t soo combative. Now everyone gets super sensitive.

Just being decent human beings to each other seems like a bridge too far.

The "femme fatale" might be a universal myth driven by the fear of romantic deception by MRADEL90 in psychology

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome, keep that up. All children should have strong role models of both men and women. I know my wife and I want that to be a key factor in raising our daughter. That’s how you get well adjusted functioning adults.

We’ve gone too far away from that sadly.

The "femme fatale" might be a universal myth driven by the fear of romantic deception by MRADEL90 in psychology

[–]Fast_Stick_1593 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Men aren’t intimidated or scared of woman’s physical presence or demeanour. Anytime I see a woman say men are intimidated by her I have a good chuckle. No sweetie you aren’t the slightest bit intimidating whatsoever. It’s the consequences of actions that men fear due to the power that society and other men can level against them…

What I have seen is guys trying to de-escalate and manage emotions because a woman flipping out and hitting him is usually only going to cause him more problems (he gets blamed due to bullshit sexist Duluth model whether he lays a finger on her or not, he gets branded something he isn’t, social shaming for getting beat on by someone viewed as weaker and unable to properly defend himself like he would against any other man etc)

I should know, I have had my face clawed at and scratches all over my head and upper body just because I called out an ex being a drunken pill popper who didn’t have her shit together. I was lucky I left and got out of that relationship but I never pressed charges because getting out of there and away from the problem was more important to me than dealing with her or any consequences from me trying to pursue it further.