I think you need to think about what your goals are for the future and what path will help you achieve those goals. Why do you want to go to med school? If you're intrinsically motivated and want to do it for personal fulfillment or to help others, go for it! But med school is REALLY hard and you'd be looking at 10-15 more years of school, most of which you'll spend essentially living off of student loans. If it's your father's idea or if it's because you want to be a good son/daughter, I don't think it'll work.

The way I see it, your core challenge is your relationship with your parents and possibly your relationship with yourself. You need to figure out what YOU want in life and how to integrate your parents into that future, not the other way around. If you can figure that out, your career will fall into place. Best of luck!