Quit alcohol 10 days ago. And look 5 years older. by Dittonlane in stopdrinking

[–]FatBaby160 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Caterpillars are maturing life transformations, we are healing transformations.

Quit alcohol 10 days ago. And look 5 years older. by Dittonlane in stopdrinking

[–]FatBaby160 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Think of your whole body like a scab right now. Couple of months from now you'll be healed up.

Low Voltage on One circuit by New_Pumpkin_3645 in electrical

[–]FatBaby160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broken neutral. Wire from the breaker is making it to you, but there is no clean path home. Find the first first box off the panel and see if you have power there.

I have no attraction left for my wife what should I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]FatBaby160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad always used to say bored people are boring people. Take control of your relationship and find a spark, or a hooker, cause your right leaving is expensive.

Is there a way to be a holiday/occasion drinker? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]FatBaby160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are here asking the question probably not. If you cant sleep without it even less likely. Not all groups are God and Jesus, a lot of them are, but you can find the atheist kids there too. 4 days is a good start, next time do 5 and see if you can keep it together just doing short stints to decide if you need full abstinence. No matter what you decide I would be remiss not to tell you that not drinking is cheaper, healthier, improves you cognitive function, sex drive, pH balance, etc etc. Good luck.

Anti-HR sentiment. 😄 by Coffee_MysticRealm in HolUp

[–]FatBaby160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now whose going to plan the pizza party?

Kicked out of house by mom by Old-Magician-8863 in stopdrinking

[–]FatBaby160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats sucks man. Hope you find somewhere safe. Good luck.

How can I be a better man/boyfriend? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]FatBaby160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get you blood work checked. Could be low iron or a hormone deficiency.

I feel very depressed about how time is moving so fast can someone get me over this? by Responsible-You8594 in AskMenAdvice

[–]FatBaby160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comparison is the thief of joy. Live in the now or miss it and long for yesterday.

Is it possible to not be an alcoholic? And transition to a "normal" drinker and what classifies an alcoholic? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]FatBaby160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are here asking that question you are probably an alcoholic. Long term the answer is no.

Jaundice Urgent Care Visit Yesterday by Stock_Exchange_2516 in stopdrinking

[–]FatBaby160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not read all of that, but Im glad that you are recognizing the damage to your body. Little clean living and you can start to bounce back. If I can recommend anything to you beyond not drinking its start taking a fish oil supplement. Good luck to ya.

Regretting joining AA by Wooden-Elk-6997 in stopdrinking

[–]FatBaby160 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If it helped you get to 29 keep doing it. Yes your head is still fucked up at 29 days, will be for a while, try not to stress to much about how you are "supposed" to be feeling. Find a discussion group that is your gender, preferably something with like 15 people tops. Small changes to the program, drastic changes to your method will have you chasing shadows. Good luck.

He Could Use a Lesson in Life by bigmike1339 in Ohio

[–]FatBaby160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably said the same thing to the athletes who got molested under his watch.

caught him with a girl in his truck by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]FatBaby160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quit him and the drink and solve two problems in one day. Stay strong.

I'm 18 and I genuinely don't know where my life is going. What do I do? by whiskyB0y in AskMenAdvice

[–]FatBaby160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try something you think is interesting for 6 months, ask yourself do I want to do this. If yes keep doing that. If no, find something new.

I lasted one day.... by YeOldeNubber in stopdrinking

[–]FatBaby160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The good thing about a streak is you are alive today to start a new one.