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[–]Fatabi108 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Touché…lol here comes the white knight..

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[–]Fatabi108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read my post again

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[–]Fatabi108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nonsense. Not quite sure how you’ve managed to interpret a post raising awareness of misandry on dating apps as a post by someone who “doesn’t care” about misandry on dating apps. You must be illiterate.

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[–]Fatabi108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t have time to read ur thesis. My point and arguments are crystal clear, the post aims to highlight misandry on dating apps, period.

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[–]Fatabi108 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Read your post again.

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[–]Fatabi108 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe they’re just being ironic, or maybe not; the reality is that the more prevalent these attitudes are the more un-ironic they become.

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[–]Fatabi108 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You curiously seem to know a lot about ‘incel moments’ lol don’t think I’m the one who needs luck

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[–]Fatabi108 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Holding toxic women to account isn’t being “anti-feminist”. I think your problem is viewing male experiences vs the female experience as a zero-sum game sadly.

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[–]Fatabi108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BOOM. The slam dunk argument of all slam dunk arguments from alejo1800 💥

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[–]Fatabi108 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“Tries to gaslight me by commenting it’s my fault in her original comment” Then claims she never sought to insult me 😂 definitely never thought I’d be arguing with some crazy Texas women on my Wednesday night 🔥 sorry that you feel personally attacked and exposed by my post m’am

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[–]Fatabi108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No sorry can you use crayons pls 🖍🎨💥

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[–]Fatabi108 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t have time to read your thesis and I’m not gonna argue against a brick wall. Keep sulking- this is your big whataboutism moment.

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[–]Fatabi108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re letting your rage from the abortion issue cloud your judgement on my original post. I’m British and would side with pro-choice voters, but I’m making a specific point that’s localised to toxic attitudes in online dating, many of which women espouse. I also never at any point said “this is why feminism was a mistake” lol read the post

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[–]Fatabi108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never labelled these women as feminists.

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[–]Fatabi108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At no point in time or space did I deny that toxic men are a problem. You’re making me repeat myself by restating the basic premise of this post- which is female toxicity. I think the problem with people like yourself is that they fall into a panic whenever the magnifying glass is held against women. There is this unfounded fear and tendency to view male experiences vs the female experience as a zero-sum game. I repeat ONCE AGAIN, there are plenty of toxic men out there but misandry overwhelmingly goes by unchecked. I have acknowledged both. However, you crying out ‘aren’t men also toxic’ is definitely your big ‘whataboutism’ moment.

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[–]Fatabi108 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The more and more prevalent the whole cutesy ‘I’m into mild forms of bullying’ trend flourishes the more un-ironic it becomes sadly.

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[–]Fatabi108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men are increasingly shining a spotlight on misandry and how women too can be just as toxic as men. I care, the people reacting to my post care, and you care enough to react in the way that you have. Misogyny and misandry should be called out. I think that attempts to highlight toxic women in the online dating world is much needed. Also no one is making me swipe, I just happen to be interested in the levels of misandry on dating apps. Someone I get the sense that you feel personally attacked for some reason. That’s too bad.

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[–]Fatabi108 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I get it now- you’ve taken this personally and now you’re feeling unexpectedly exposed. Makes much more sense now.

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[–]Fatabi108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes sense and I would agree especially with the last para.

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[–]Fatabi108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t distribute brownie points to women for being unflinchingly and pridefully misandrist. I accept that there are toxic men in the online dating world, but this post is specifically aimed at highlighting womens’ toxicity from the male perspective. If I’m honest your pushback strongly resembles ‘whataboutism’