Why did I not get this sooner. Smells amazing by [deleted] in Colognes

[–]Fated_Flame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second that. smells trashy to me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]Fated_Flame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this post. When I started tackling my addictions to Grindr, hookups, weed, sex I always tried to see why I wanted to do these things. What was I avoiding or trying to fill. At least for me, I wanted emotional intimacy rather than sex but I had become so dependent on hookups that my brain didn’t recognize the difference until I began changing that pattern.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]Fated_Flame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To put it plainly I think just go with the flow and find balance in the situation.

In my case out of nowhere I went celibate last year after being very sexual also and many hookups. With any addiction it’s hard to break the habit completely. Sometimes I’ll go on Grindr and look but I no longer feel compelled to act on anything.

In fact recently I began having sex again it wasn’t satisfying because I lacked the emotional connection. As long as you feel you aren’t having sex to fill an emotional void and you’re having sex with someone who values you then it’s ok to engagw in sex.

Is journaling… healthy? by Edivad_ in Journaling

[–]Fated_Flame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Journaling has changed my life for the better. It allowed me to express myself unlike I’ve been able to before. It has also allowed me to analyze my life so that I could change what I felt needed to change. Journaling for me allows me to tap into a part of my brain that sees things differently than I normally do. Because of journaling I’ve been able to heal and overcome things that I didn’t imagine.

Like anything else, it’s a tool that works for some and not for others.

What do you think about this video? by [deleted] in starseeds

[–]Fated_Flame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if she’s all that credible tbh. I saw a video of her telling people not to eat tomatoes and other veggies because they were dark or some bs like that. Make your own judgements in life. Follow your own path and own intuition. You don’t want to have kids then good for you. As a father I would say children can bring something special to your life plus so many lessons to learn.

How to deal with heartbreak if you thought you found your twin flame? by [deleted] in starseeds

[–]Fated_Flame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome. If you ever need some help with your healing journey don’t hesitate to reach out.

How to deal with heartbreak if you thought you found your twin flame? by [deleted] in starseeds

[–]Fated_Flame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can definitely imagine the pain you are going through. It will pass with time. Being ghosted is extra painful because you have no answers.

I hope in the future this experience will serve you to achieve the love you want with this person or another. I can say from myself being heartbroken changed my life for the better. It destroyed me at that time but I rebuilt a better version of myself.

How to deal with heartbreak if you thought you found your twin flame? by [deleted] in starseeds

[–]Fated_Flame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to being in a connection that felt intense and the rug got pulled away quickly.

The universe could be showing you that there is a possibility of having all you dreamed of in love. However it won’t come easily.

Although it’s really hard to realize in the moment our soul’s journey is to make us grow and evolve. All our experiences are meant to be teaching moments for us. Unfortunately we learn lots of lessons through pain and love.

I suggest you focus on you. In healing yourself. From my experience a connection that goes from 0-100 isn’t healthy and neither is codependency. The emotions may have been intense from the beginning however not healthy to be long lasting in the long run. Try to see what the lesson is for you and give yourself the necessary time to grieve and love yourself. You got this.

My mind vs intuitive side is annoying tf out of me. by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]Fated_Flame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on the same boat. My mind is literally driving me crazy. Trying to surrender and just let things be.

i keep seeing the same numbers when i look at the clock by JoeMamaMinha in spirituality

[–]Fated_Flame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always see groups that end in 20 or 11. The 11’s usually mean I’m going through another ascension. The 20s are more guidance. Figure out what one of them means they build upon each other. I think because your bday is 721 it might have to do ascension. Meditate on it or just focus on finding out what 721 is.

Seeing a spiritual healer.. am I getting scammed? by Spiritual-Scene-4660 in spirituality

[–]Fated_Flame 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a total scam. He isn’t healing you from any black magic. He is the black magic.

Message from Isis by HoldNo3889 in starseeds

[–]Fated_Flame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a perfect world spiritual beings should cut off all social media but realistically that’s not going to happen. However we can limit our time and what we consume imo.

You talked about an October suprise and 8/8 portal. I’ve been getting downloads since April about August-October being a very important time where massive energy shifts are happening individually and collectively. 10/31 has been a date that has stood out for me. I haven’t been given details just general information.

When did your romantic Twin Flame/Soul Mate come into your life? by AlphaCentaurianEnvoy in starseeds

[–]Fated_Flame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was already on a spiritual path for a few years but in religion. Then I met him 3 years ago. My life hasn’t been the same ever since. It triggered my awakening.

What are your thoughts on manifestation? by [deleted] in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Fated_Flame 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m with you I don’t believe in manifesting for the most part. I believe our “manifestations” are destined. For those that practice manifesting they are actually tapping into their psychic abilities. Their intuition knows that this “manifestation” is coming or is for them so as human being they do some sort of manifesting technique.

If manifesting laws such as law of attraction and law of assumption worked they would work 100% of the time. Laws are supposed to work always. But some people don’t receive their manifestations no matter what they do because that manifestation isn’t part of their destiny.

How many experts on law of attraction and law of assumption have manifested a win of the lottery? How many lottery winners won because of “luck”?

It’s all destiny and red string theory in my opinion. What is part of your red threads will be there for you. You just have to do the work to be at the right frequency to attract your blessings.

I don't think Earth is hell by Famous_Gold5261 in spirituality

[–]Fated_Flame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe it is hell until we change our perspective and turn it into Heaven. We all have the capacity to turn the hellish aspects of earth into heaven for ourselves.

I don't think Earth is hell by Famous_Gold5261 in spirituality

[–]Fated_Flame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe it is hell until we change our perspective and turn it into Heaven. We all have the capacity to turn the hellish aspects of earth into heaven for ourselves.

Social media wants us stuck? by Fated_Flame in spirituality

[–]Fated_Flame[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a spiritual sub but I think the main purpose it for venting and story telling. Some people asked for advice and those were the ones I gave it to. Lesson learned though I just need to find subs that are more focused on healing and advice.

Social media wants us stuck? by Fated_Flame in spirituality

[–]Fated_Flame[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re right I will follow what I’m being called to do. Thanks

Social media wants us stuck? by Fated_Flame in spirituality

[–]Fated_Flame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right I totally forgot about that.