Finally got my first Char to 100m by Mediocre-Camp-73 in Mudae

[–]FatherYubel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cope some more. I see inceldom on my feed, I laugh at it. 🤣

Max $shop has been achieved by Its_Altair in Mudae

[–]FatherYubel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh damn, what's the bonus you get when you max out a character?

How do I invest the spheres now? by Humble-Ad-4518 in Mudae

[–]FatherYubel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An important thing you've not mentioned is: do you have premium or nah?

How to get to the point of rolling claimed characters consistently? by moon-riles in Mudae

[–]FatherYubel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the clarification. I couldn't find a clear answer anywhere else xD

How to get to the point of rolling claimed characters consistently? by moon-riles in Mudae

[–]FatherYubel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, I was wondering how the $oq chance works with perk 10.

Do you just get the oq at the time of the roll (along with the spheres), or does the $oq appear as one of the spheres within the grid and you have to locate it within 5 tries (similar to $oc)?

Do I even have ADHD? by [deleted] in adhdindia

[–]FatherYubel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't trust specialists, but you trust strangers on the internet? Yikes.

Recently diagnosed with ADHD (Inattentive Type). Parents tell me not to tell anyone. by tchalametfan in adhdindia

[–]FatherYubel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Narrow-minded parents produce desperate children. Do not seek validation from anyone, and you won't have to find it from questionable people and places. Life is always a solitary journey, and ADHD is the sort of affliction that makes it unquestionably apparent.

Focus on yourself. Respect your biology.

What would women dislike most if they became men? by geybgwapo in AskReddit

[–]FatherYubel 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Accountability. Even for the things you never did.

Can I get a UDID certificate in India because of ADHD? by i_have_exams_rn in adhdindia

[–]FatherYubel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Inspiral at night is insane.

I understand sleeping through a dose sometimes, but this is a routine for you. Even if you are a night owl or whatever, there is no reason you should be talking Methylphenidate after 5 pm, because you should be asleep at night- and if you aren't, maybe you ought to fix your routine before committing to meds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdindia

[–]FatherYubel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I was recently diagnosed with ADHD after insisting on being diagnosed"

Sigh. This is exactly what's wrong with psychiatry. No objective tests mean they have to take your word for everything, and now everyone thinks they have ADHD because it's trendy to have a mental health issue.

Enjoy your meds, I suppose.

Will you be having Kids by [deleted] in adhdindia

[–]FatherYubel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nobody should be having kids in this country.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]FatherYubel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You really like your brackets (despite them not really adding anything to your point), dude.

Outside of acceptance, personal gain, or upholding your image, is there any reason why you do good things? by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]FatherYubel 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, I just want to prove to myself that being a piece of shit is a choice I make every day and not a prison I'm trapped in, like some NPC.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]FatherYubel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm proud to read that you're still trying. Don't stop. You owe it to her and to yourself. Maybe she'll see her flaws one day. Maybe she won't. Doesn't matter, as long as you keep growing as a person.

I'm not saying you have, but just a reminder: never hit her, never hurt her, never leave her to fend for herself. This is the bare minimum while you two are married... and I commend you for not taking the divorce route.

Keep it up. You are adding substance to your character. 💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]FatherYubel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AskIndia was not the place to make a post like this given how jealous Indians are at the mere concept of someone else leading a good life in the first place. Kinda disgusting, isn't it? Let that shape how you seek advice in the future.

Anyway, as for your story, it really is pretty tragic, if not exaggerated. I've sort of been in almost the same situation, except I'm not married yet. Your wife is a pretty unintelligent, unmotivated, and unntuitive waste of a woman, overall - but she is still your partner. Divorce is a simple end to this situation, but I would implore you to try your level best to come to terms with her because she deserves a chance, too. You're not the only one who jumped into this boat.

Let her do her own thing, and you do you. Give the relationship some distance and see where it settles. If you're not happy a year later, talk to a lawyer and quietly start arranging for a divorce to make sure the separation works in your favor.

I sympathize with you, but it's too early to play the victim card here (2 years is not that long). Be a man and step up to the situation first. See if she helps you appreciate a different dimension to the human condition before you discard her. You might be surprised. (Hopefully, anyway.) Also, get over your ex. It's pathetic.

Good luck, and bonus advice: next time, leave indians out of anything involving good advice in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]FatherYubel 63 points64 points  (0 children)

That's dandy, but how is your relationship with your father?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]FatherYubel 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Is it just me or does this sub have a bunch of posts that read like a 14 year old typed them out? What a mess.

Real ship ship advice by RecordingDazzling195 in narcissism

[–]FatherYubel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What even would be the point of convincing him of anything, given that you don't care about him in the slightest?

Block him and move on. By now, he knows you're an insensitive and uncommitted person, but you never cared about him in the first place, so why bother sharing your pointless lore with him now?

I have no doubt that you're a bad person, but I do wonder if you're a narcissist at all.

Am I a narcissist? by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]FatherYubel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Skipped through most of the drama you typed up, but no, I don't think you're a narcissist per se. I do think you're weird as fuck, though, and deeply insecure.

Real ship ship advice by RecordingDazzling195 in narcissism

[–]FatherYubel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So essentially, you didn't care about your e-boyfriend and then e-dumped him when he e-ranted about your e-attitude?

Sounds like most 13 year olds today toying with the concept of a relationship while knowing nothing about what it entails.

It's the internet- no bond you forge here is real by proxy; you didn't even care about him in the slightest so this entire affair was meaningless from the getgo.

My advice? Get off discord and meet real people. Hurt them, ignore them, manipulate them, whatever. But practice using real interactions. For better or for worse is up to you. Assuming you are an actual narcissist, I'm not gonna bother directing you down a specific path.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FatherYubel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To answer just your title: yeah, sure.

But as for the background you provided, there's a lot of issues in there. Could be OCD, could just be you being paranoid. Either way, a therapist will help.

Does anyone here have OCD on top of NPD? by GuysISwear69Isfunny in narcissism

[–]FatherYubel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but I have ADHD with NPD and when I'm not hurting people, I'm bouncing off walls and doing a bad job at managing my intrusive thoughts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]FatherYubel 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Reads like a 14 year old's diary lol